The feeling of hopelessness and loss after breaking can overwhelm you to the point where it's all you think about.
How much longer can you live like this? But your situation isn't hopeless, you've just never been taught how to win back a lost love.
What you need is a little guidance so you can learn how to attract your ex towards you rather than constantly pushing them away.
The first thing you need to do is calm down and get grounded again.
It's very easy to start panicking when you think you're going to lose the one you love forever.
It's perfectly understandable that you would do whatever it takes to stay together.
But it's exactly this desperate attitude that will kill any chance you have a reunion.
The harder you try, the more you push, the more you plead, argue or try to convince...
the more you push your ex away! In order to win back you love, you need to understand that they are human and like anyone else, their natural reaction is to pull away when someone is pushing themselves on them.
If you're doing any of these behaviors or contemplating, understand that this is the biggest mistake you could make right now.
Now is the time to back off and give your ex space and time.
An interesting thing happens when you give your ex plenty of space and make yourself unavailable.
They actually start to miss you.
Taking a break also give you time to calm down and get your head clear so you can decide what you want to do next.
Whatever you decide to do next, understand that if you want to win back lost love you're going to have to stay strong and not resort to any desperate or needy behavior.
If you can avoid this mistake, you're going to have a much stronger chance of getting back together.