- 1). Ensure that neither of you still has romantic feelings toward the other. If one of the partners does not agree with the break-up or divorce, it will be much too difficult for you to live together. The two of you must have an honest conversation so you both understand the details of your relationship and living arrangements. You must understand that friendship is key, and you should set a time frame for your living together. Try to have a plan in place for when you will both move out.
- 2). Establish a detailed living arrangement with your ex. It should include where each of you will sleep. Plan to sleep and spend most of your time in separate areas; it will be your responsibility to maintain these areas. Discuss who cleans and maintains the kitchen and other common areas. And talk about mealtimes: Some roommates may choose to eat together, while others prepare food and eat separately.
- 3). Discuss how you will handle each other's dating arrangements. Although this situation will probably be uncomfortable, you have to accept it and make it as smooth as possible. Try not bring your dates back to the house without warning your ex. If your ex brings a date to the house, be friendly if you see him and allow them privacy.
- 4). Treat your ex just as you would any other roommate. Do not argue over small things, such as who left a dirty plate on the kitchen sink or who drank the last of the orange juice. Leave any confrontation for serious issues. This attitude will prevent your living environment from being full of hostility and resentment.
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