When a break up happens and a guy decides that he is going to make things right and win back his girlfriend, one of the first "ideas" that he will usually get is to go out and buy her something.
It could be jewelry, it could be chocolate, it could even be flowers.
Yet, even though this does work *some* of the time, most of the time it ends up doing nothing at all to change their ex girlfriend's mind, and they are all out of ideas once this happens.
You don't have to buy her flowers if you want to get her back.
Here's how to win her back after a break up without breaking your bank account: 1.
Tell her that you respect her decision and acknowledge that there were issues in the relationship.
All you are doing with this is, you are showing her that you value her opinions and that you realize that things were not great.
A woman hates to hear from her ex boyfriend that everything was perfect in the relationship when she knows that they were not.
Let her know that you think breaking up at that moment was probably the right thing to do, and that there really were things that could have been better.
Don't assign blame for these things, though.
2.
Give your ex girlfriend time to cool out and time to miss you as well.
Sometimes, in order to appreciate a person in our life, we need to get the feeling of missing them.
That's when we really know what they mean to us in a way.
So, give her some of that time and space to see what it is like to be without you.
You want her to miss you, because that can make everything a lot easier on you.
Also, you want her to cool out, because you don't want to try an rekindle things with her when she is mad or angry at you.
3.
Make her see that you still are a really good guy and appealing by seeing other women.
You don't want to jump into a relationship with another woman, you might not even want to date her.
What you do want is to let your ex girlfriend see that you are a valuable guy that other women see this.
And you also want her to get the feeling that there is a possibility that you won't be around forever.
It could be jewelry, it could be chocolate, it could even be flowers.
Yet, even though this does work *some* of the time, most of the time it ends up doing nothing at all to change their ex girlfriend's mind, and they are all out of ideas once this happens.
You don't have to buy her flowers if you want to get her back.
Here's how to win her back after a break up without breaking your bank account: 1.
Tell her that you respect her decision and acknowledge that there were issues in the relationship.
All you are doing with this is, you are showing her that you value her opinions and that you realize that things were not great.
A woman hates to hear from her ex boyfriend that everything was perfect in the relationship when she knows that they were not.
Let her know that you think breaking up at that moment was probably the right thing to do, and that there really were things that could have been better.
Don't assign blame for these things, though.
2.
Give your ex girlfriend time to cool out and time to miss you as well.
Sometimes, in order to appreciate a person in our life, we need to get the feeling of missing them.
That's when we really know what they mean to us in a way.
So, give her some of that time and space to see what it is like to be without you.
You want her to miss you, because that can make everything a lot easier on you.
Also, you want her to cool out, because you don't want to try an rekindle things with her when she is mad or angry at you.
3.
Make her see that you still are a really good guy and appealing by seeing other women.
You don't want to jump into a relationship with another woman, you might not even want to date her.
What you do want is to let your ex girlfriend see that you are a valuable guy that other women see this.
And you also want her to get the feeling that there is a possibility that you won't be around forever.
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