Breaking up is always hard to do.
If you are the one who has been dumped its even worst.
Possibly you are still trying to realize what is going on and you are trying to recover yourself from the shock and the confusion that the break up brought, not to mention the sadness and insecurity it brings.
Do you want to know how to mend a broken heart? There are many things that can be done but none is as much effective as this one: Forgiveness.
And who should you forgive? Maybe you should forgive yourself.
Nobody is perfect, although it may be hard to accept it, but this is the truth.
We are humans and even if we do our best, there are some things that are out of our control.
So, has hard has it may seem, forgive yourself and move forward.
Forgive your ex.
I know that your feelings are running uncontrollably and you feel bad about them, but you must take this effort and put the anger and hate on the side.
It may be tough but it will sure compensate.
Open yourself to new possibilities.
Once you have forgiven yourself and your ex, you can begin to live a new life.
The bad feelings only distort everything we perceive, so once you get rid of them, you begin to see things as they are.
This means that you can free yourself and open to others, showing them your golden heart or even get your ex back with a new mind state.