If your boyfriend has dumped you, then you will need to use the most effective ways possible to get your ex boyfriend back.
You need to stop wasting time, and try to put the way that you are feeling behind you straight away.
Of course you will feel hurt, pain, depression, and probably a little angry.
While you are dwelling and sinking into these emotions, what do you think your ex boyfriend is doing? He is probably meeting or looking for other women.
The more time that you spend wallowing in self pity, the bigger the chance that some other woman will start dating your ex boyfriend.
When this happens, your chances of ever winning him back are going to be extremely small at best.
I'm not saying that it is your fault that your boyfriend has left you.
This is not about who was in the wrong.
It is about trying to manipulate the situation so that you can get back your ex.
It is that simple.
If this is not the way you want to play it, than that is fine, go get yourself a cup of coffee, and sit down and drink it on your own, thinking of all the good times the two of you used to have.
But if you are prepared to do what it takes to get back with your ex boyfriend, then keep reading.
Your ex will expect you to behave in a certain way because of the break up.
He will expect you to be upset, angry, in tears, and desperate to get back with him.
Take a good look at these characteristics.
Upset, angry, crying, and desperate.
If someone was trying to get back with you, and you saw these traits in them, would you want to give it another chance? I'm guessing that you would want this person to be far away as possible from you.
This is what your boyfriend will be feeling about you, if you act in this way.
So How Do You Get Back With Your Ex Boyfriend? Do the opposite of everything that he expects.
Now this will take some acting on your part, but it will be worth it in the end.
By all means have a cry and throw stuff around, but keep that behavior a secret from everyone.
Look happy, start being more out going, smile a lot, and the most important thing of all, do not get in touch with your ex.
He will expect you to get in touch, but when you do nothing of the kind, it is going to throw him.
He will wonder why you are not calling, and why you do not want to see him.
It will drive him mad thinking that him leaving you has not upset you one little bit.
This is the state of mind that you want him in, because that is the state of mind that can be easily manipulated, if you know how to play it.
Make sure that his friends see you out and about, and I men his friends, not him.
If you look like you are having a great time in front of him, he will think that you are trying to make him jealous.
However doing it in front of his friends is an entirely different kettle of fish.
Word is going to get back to him, and he is going to be so busy thinking about you, and how happy you seem without him, that he is not going to be thinking about dating someone else.
Sooner or later he is going to pick up the phone and call you, or he may purposely "bump into you".
Be nice to him, let him see what he is missing, ask him how he is, but do not spend too much time with him.
If you leave first, he will be left wanting more of your company.
Now you know some decent strategies on how to get back with your ex boyfriend, get to work.