There is very little that can compare with the mixed emotions you experience after your relationship has failed.
On the on hand you are very, very angry with your ex, and yet you still love your ex with all your heart, and will do almost anything to get him/her back into your life again.
If your ex still has feelings for you, there will be signs that your ex still wants you back, but you will be totally oblivious to them because of the state that you're in.
At the moment you are feeling extremely sorry for yourself and are more than likely convincing yourself that you and your ex will never see each other again.
Of course this makes you feel even worse.
Nothing about your life is positive now and each day finds you sinking deeper into depression.
However, after a break up, it is essential that you allow yourself enough time to get over these mixed emotions, so that you are thinking rationally again.
Once you have achieved this, if there are signs that your ex still wants you back, you will definitely see them.
Also, once your emotions have settled down and you are feeling more positive about your life, you will be able to cope a lot better - no matter what the outcome of your situation.
So, instead of constantly thinking of whether you and your ex will get back together or not, rather concentrate on doing things that will help you to get over the trauma of the break up first - no matter how long it takes.
Remember, while you are doing this, you are allowing your ex to do the same thing as well.
Once you are feeling better, you will state to see signs that your ex still wants you back - if they are out there.
For instance, your friends will start telling you things that your ex is saying about you.
You will start seeing your ex almost everywhere you go - this is a sure sign that your ex is still interested in you.
He/she is making an effort to be where you are most of the time.
The most obvious of the signs that your ex still wants you back is when he/she starts to make contact with you again.
This should tell you that you are both ready to talk to each other, and there is an excellent chance that you will be able to resolve any issues you may have.
On the on hand you are very, very angry with your ex, and yet you still love your ex with all your heart, and will do almost anything to get him/her back into your life again.
If your ex still has feelings for you, there will be signs that your ex still wants you back, but you will be totally oblivious to them because of the state that you're in.
At the moment you are feeling extremely sorry for yourself and are more than likely convincing yourself that you and your ex will never see each other again.
Of course this makes you feel even worse.
Nothing about your life is positive now and each day finds you sinking deeper into depression.
However, after a break up, it is essential that you allow yourself enough time to get over these mixed emotions, so that you are thinking rationally again.
Once you have achieved this, if there are signs that your ex still wants you back, you will definitely see them.
Also, once your emotions have settled down and you are feeling more positive about your life, you will be able to cope a lot better - no matter what the outcome of your situation.
So, instead of constantly thinking of whether you and your ex will get back together or not, rather concentrate on doing things that will help you to get over the trauma of the break up first - no matter how long it takes.
Remember, while you are doing this, you are allowing your ex to do the same thing as well.
Once you are feeling better, you will state to see signs that your ex still wants you back - if they are out there.
For instance, your friends will start telling you things that your ex is saying about you.
You will start seeing your ex almost everywhere you go - this is a sure sign that your ex is still interested in you.
He/she is making an effort to be where you are most of the time.
The most obvious of the signs that your ex still wants you back is when he/she starts to make contact with you again.
This should tell you that you are both ready to talk to each other, and there is an excellent chance that you will be able to resolve any issues you may have.
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