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How to Get My Ex Girlfriend Back and in Love

In your quest on getting your ex girlfriend back, I'm guessing that you want her back for the long-term.
Going through a breakup is never easy, so I doubt you want to experience that with her again.
You may have said some hurtful things, but now you need to look toward the future and figure out how to get your ex girlfriend back.
Here is what you need to do to get her back in your life for the long-run.
Take Responsibility For Your Actions: Your first step is to take responsibility for anything that you did to harm the relationship.
Both of you made mistakes, but now it is time to take hold of your actions.
Nobody else caused them, so own up to them and then start to try get her back.
Analyze yourself in detail: Once you have owned up to your errors, you need to look at them in greater detail, and see whether they were caused by a deeper issue.
Look at the relationship before the breakup happened and get to grips with how things fell apart.
Express Your Feelings Over The Breakup: Many tell us to simply forget about the breakup and move on.
But before you do this, you need to release all that bottled up sadness or anger.
If you were hurtful then be sorry for what you did.
And to have the courage to get your ex girl back, you should feel terrible for ever hurting her.
See How Bad The Breakup Really Was: Before you can decide to revive what's left of the relationship, you need to see how much damage was done, and whether there is anything left worth salvaging.
Once the damage has been assessed, you can start to pick up the pieces and learn to get her back.
Hopefully your connection was not completely destroyed in the breakup and that there is still a little love left to get back together.
Does She Want Back In? You could be utterly devoted to work things out and rekindle the romance, but if she has no interest in getting back together, then you are better off moving on.
If she has carried on to a new life, then it will be nearly impossible to rekindle things.
This may not be what you want to hear, but if you hurt her deep enough that she has forgotten about you, then it is ultimately over.
Get In Touch With Her: If your ex calls you up and wants to discuss the breakup, then just listen to what she says.
This may require you to sit through her emotional outbursts as she reminds you how hurt she is.
Be patient and allow her to express herself.
There is a good chance she will simply repeat everything that you have already thought over.
But being told your mistakes may urge you to rectify things.
Show Her Support: You need to be able to support her.
Support her emotions.
Support her needs.
Support her insecurities.
You may find it hard doing this after the breakup, but if you can roll with the punches in your quest on getting your ex girlfriend back, she will be yours again - for good this time.
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