Being able to heal a broken relationship is not impossible, but you can expect it to take some work.
What will define how difficult it will be is the reason for you having trouble in the first place.
Whatever the reason is will determine how you go about getting your relationship back on track.
If your relationship has slowly been going downhill, this would be easier to fix.
It will still take some work and could take a bit of time to accomplish this.
There needs to be a commitment from both of you to make it work.
Only one of you trying to fix your relationship will not do any good.
Normally a couple will have a series of small things that ends a relationship instead of one big one.
All of these small things together can make your relationship weaker to the point that it breaks it up.
You and your partner will have to take an honest look at yourselves to assess what went wrong and what your roles would have been.
After each of you have admitted to each other or at least to yourself what role you played in your relationship issues, then the two of you can start working on solutions.
You would need to honestly talk about what went wrong and what you can do to fix it.
And most importantly what you are willing to do yourself.
Having this discussion can be very difficult to do and can lead to a fight if you are not careful.
The reason for this is you will have to listen to what your partner tells you about why the relationship is where it is now, and it may be hurtful to you.
If you want to make your relationship work, do not take this personal, use this information as a tool to make things better.
The same will go for your partner, they need to listen to what you have to say, then the two of you can start to work on making things right.
What can happen is one of you may not be able to take criticism, the talk will turn into a fight and nothing gets accomplished.
The goal is for you both to be calm and mature and face the truths to avoid this scenario.
Being able to heal a relationship is not impossible, it just takes hard work.
If the two of you really want to save your relationship you will have to face up to your faults and change whatever it is that has been causing you problems.
What will define how difficult it will be is the reason for you having trouble in the first place.
Whatever the reason is will determine how you go about getting your relationship back on track.
If your relationship has slowly been going downhill, this would be easier to fix.
It will still take some work and could take a bit of time to accomplish this.
There needs to be a commitment from both of you to make it work.
Only one of you trying to fix your relationship will not do any good.
Normally a couple will have a series of small things that ends a relationship instead of one big one.
All of these small things together can make your relationship weaker to the point that it breaks it up.
You and your partner will have to take an honest look at yourselves to assess what went wrong and what your roles would have been.
After each of you have admitted to each other or at least to yourself what role you played in your relationship issues, then the two of you can start working on solutions.
You would need to honestly talk about what went wrong and what you can do to fix it.
And most importantly what you are willing to do yourself.
Having this discussion can be very difficult to do and can lead to a fight if you are not careful.
The reason for this is you will have to listen to what your partner tells you about why the relationship is where it is now, and it may be hurtful to you.
If you want to make your relationship work, do not take this personal, use this information as a tool to make things better.
The same will go for your partner, they need to listen to what you have to say, then the two of you can start to work on making things right.
What can happen is one of you may not be able to take criticism, the talk will turn into a fight and nothing gets accomplished.
The goal is for you both to be calm and mature and face the truths to avoid this scenario.
Being able to heal a relationship is not impossible, it just takes hard work.
If the two of you really want to save your relationship you will have to face up to your faults and change whatever it is that has been causing you problems.
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