Your ex boyfriend wants to have sex and you think it's a good idea? Shame on you.
If you still have any feelings whatsoever for the man and if you're hoping for a renewed future with him, sex is the last thing that should be on your mind.
Sleeping with an ex is tempting.
You might view his unwavering desire in you as a sign that he still wants to be with you.
This kind of confusion can easily lead you astray.
There's absolutely no circumstance that makes sleeping with him beneficial.
Once you understand why that is, you'll be glad you didn't give in.
Three reasons why you should say "no" when your ex boyfriend wants to have sex are: He'll see you as a friend with benefits and nothing more.
The very first time you sleep with your ex boyfriend you're sending him a very loud and clear message.
You're indicating that you're fine just being his friend with benefits.
If you two haven't discussed the idea of giving your romantic relationship another chance, and instead you just hopped into bed with him, he'll see that as a sign that you're okay with things the way they are.
If you love him and you want him back, this sends the wrong message from the get go.
You'll mistake his interest in sex for more.
Since the beginning of time men and women have viewed physical intimacy very differently.
You may feel closer to him and more connected once you take have made love.
Chances are very good, he won't.
Sleeping with him isn't going to make him take you back.
He won't see it as a step towards getting back together at all.
If you do, your heart is bound to get hurt.
It can kill any chance you have of getting him back.
Throwing yourself at your ex, including have sex with him, will not make you more attractive to him.
Sadly, some men view this type of behavior as pathetic.
If you sleep with him and then he doesn't call, don't be surprised by that.
You've shown him that you don't respect yourself enough to hold out for what you truly want and that's to be his girlfriend again.
Even though the temptation may be great, don't give in and sleep with your ex boyfriend if your goal is to get him back.
You'll end up in more emotional pain than you already are and you'll still be alone pining for a man who doesn't really want you.
If you still have any feelings whatsoever for the man and if you're hoping for a renewed future with him, sex is the last thing that should be on your mind.
Sleeping with an ex is tempting.
You might view his unwavering desire in you as a sign that he still wants to be with you.
This kind of confusion can easily lead you astray.
There's absolutely no circumstance that makes sleeping with him beneficial.
Once you understand why that is, you'll be glad you didn't give in.
Three reasons why you should say "no" when your ex boyfriend wants to have sex are: He'll see you as a friend with benefits and nothing more.
The very first time you sleep with your ex boyfriend you're sending him a very loud and clear message.
You're indicating that you're fine just being his friend with benefits.
If you two haven't discussed the idea of giving your romantic relationship another chance, and instead you just hopped into bed with him, he'll see that as a sign that you're okay with things the way they are.
If you love him and you want him back, this sends the wrong message from the get go.
You'll mistake his interest in sex for more.
Since the beginning of time men and women have viewed physical intimacy very differently.
You may feel closer to him and more connected once you take have made love.
Chances are very good, he won't.
Sleeping with him isn't going to make him take you back.
He won't see it as a step towards getting back together at all.
If you do, your heart is bound to get hurt.
It can kill any chance you have of getting him back.
Throwing yourself at your ex, including have sex with him, will not make you more attractive to him.
Sadly, some men view this type of behavior as pathetic.
If you sleep with him and then he doesn't call, don't be surprised by that.
You've shown him that you don't respect yourself enough to hold out for what you truly want and that's to be his girlfriend again.
Even though the temptation may be great, don't give in and sleep with your ex boyfriend if your goal is to get him back.
You'll end up in more emotional pain than you already are and you'll still be alone pining for a man who doesn't really want you.
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