The two of you have split up and apparently is was not your doing.
Here is some advice to help you in getting a boyfriend back.
It may be necessary for you to change roles just a little bit, though.
If you are ordinarily kind of the passive type, you may have to shift gears a little bit and become a little more aggressive.
Maybe in the past you are used to being the hunted, but now you are actually the hunter; with a twist.
Even though you are the hunter getting boyfriend back, you actually are wanting him to think that he is the hunter, not you.
Please understand that in most circumstances it is natural for the boyfriend to want to be the pursuer, whether he knows it or not.
So what you are going to do is pursue him by enticing him to pursue you, thus getting your boyfriend back in the process.
This will give him the thrill of the hunt which is what he is looking for and you are getting him back which is what you are looking for.
Since you were once with him, you know his interests and what he likes to go after; so be it! You could say that you are using yourself as the bait, in a sense.
But make sure that his interests have not changed since you were together, maybe that even had something to do with the break up.
If you know that he is attracted to girls with a brain, maybe you try to "bump" into him at the library if that is where he hangs out.
If sporting events are his thing, then brush up on your sports knowledge and make sure he notices you at the same events he attends.
You want to make sure he has the opportunity to see the attributes in you that you know trigger the desired response.
Then when he sees you, back off just a bit.
Not too much, but just enough that he has to do a bit of chasing.
The point is that you will be just out of reach so that he has to do some reaching.
That should spice up the game a little bit for he and you both.
And as you are getting boyfriend back, he will see it as getting girlfriend back.
Never let him know your game plan, though.
You would rather he think it is all his idea.
Just make sure you keep placing the "bait" in front of the "fish" often enough that he can think of nothing else but how to get his girlfriend back.
Kind of sneaky, huh? Well it works.
And it is fun for both of you.
Here is some advice to help you in getting a boyfriend back.
It may be necessary for you to change roles just a little bit, though.
If you are ordinarily kind of the passive type, you may have to shift gears a little bit and become a little more aggressive.
Maybe in the past you are used to being the hunted, but now you are actually the hunter; with a twist.
Even though you are the hunter getting boyfriend back, you actually are wanting him to think that he is the hunter, not you.
Please understand that in most circumstances it is natural for the boyfriend to want to be the pursuer, whether he knows it or not.
So what you are going to do is pursue him by enticing him to pursue you, thus getting your boyfriend back in the process.
This will give him the thrill of the hunt which is what he is looking for and you are getting him back which is what you are looking for.
Since you were once with him, you know his interests and what he likes to go after; so be it! You could say that you are using yourself as the bait, in a sense.
But make sure that his interests have not changed since you were together, maybe that even had something to do with the break up.
If you know that he is attracted to girls with a brain, maybe you try to "bump" into him at the library if that is where he hangs out.
If sporting events are his thing, then brush up on your sports knowledge and make sure he notices you at the same events he attends.
You want to make sure he has the opportunity to see the attributes in you that you know trigger the desired response.
Then when he sees you, back off just a bit.
Not too much, but just enough that he has to do a bit of chasing.
The point is that you will be just out of reach so that he has to do some reaching.
That should spice up the game a little bit for he and you both.
And as you are getting boyfriend back, he will see it as getting girlfriend back.
Never let him know your game plan, though.
You would rather he think it is all his idea.
Just make sure you keep placing the "bait" in front of the "fish" often enough that he can think of nothing else but how to get his girlfriend back.
Kind of sneaky, huh? Well it works.
And it is fun for both of you.
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