When your heart is broken and problems start occurring in your relationship people tend to seek advice from their friends and families.
This can be good to have someone close that you can talk to.
But friends and families can only do so much; they can listen and maybe suggest some thoughts of what you should do.
You need to remember that they are only getting one side of the problem and that is your side.
There are always two sides to every situation and that is why it is best to talk to your partner.
To save a relationship both partners must be willing to communicate and work out their differences.
If one partner is not willing to talk and not trying to work things out, then there is nothing that you or anyone can do to change that.
But if you are both willing to work hard and try to move forward to a better relationship then that is a good sign that you could save your relationship.
What went wrong in the relationship? This is the time that you and your partner really need to learn to listen and communicate in a positive manner.
Allow your partner to open up without interruption to express their feelings on what they feel is the problem.
Make sure that you really listen to what they are saying to you.
Do not get defensive and negative and lash back with the "blame game".
Let your partner finish and then respond in a positive way.
Be willing to accept your mistakes and what you will do to make changes.
Now that you know what the problems are, the air is cleared and you have both compromised on solutions that would help your relationship then move forward.
Be happy and have fun being together.
Keep your promises on the changes that you have made and continue to do them.
Don't keep bringing up the same subjects and problems that you "use" to have and dwell over them.
The past is the past and you should focus on the future.
Every relationship has their ups and downs, but if you are willing to work through those issues by communicating, listening, compromise and trusting your partner you have the tools that you need to save your relationship and look forward to a happy healthy future together.
This can be good to have someone close that you can talk to.
But friends and families can only do so much; they can listen and maybe suggest some thoughts of what you should do.
You need to remember that they are only getting one side of the problem and that is your side.
There are always two sides to every situation and that is why it is best to talk to your partner.
To save a relationship both partners must be willing to communicate and work out their differences.
If one partner is not willing to talk and not trying to work things out, then there is nothing that you or anyone can do to change that.
But if you are both willing to work hard and try to move forward to a better relationship then that is a good sign that you could save your relationship.
What went wrong in the relationship? This is the time that you and your partner really need to learn to listen and communicate in a positive manner.
Allow your partner to open up without interruption to express their feelings on what they feel is the problem.
Make sure that you really listen to what they are saying to you.
Do not get defensive and negative and lash back with the "blame game".
Let your partner finish and then respond in a positive way.
Be willing to accept your mistakes and what you will do to make changes.
Now that you know what the problems are, the air is cleared and you have both compromised on solutions that would help your relationship then move forward.
Be happy and have fun being together.
Keep your promises on the changes that you have made and continue to do them.
Don't keep bringing up the same subjects and problems that you "use" to have and dwell over them.
The past is the past and you should focus on the future.
Every relationship has their ups and downs, but if you are willing to work through those issues by communicating, listening, compromise and trusting your partner you have the tools that you need to save your relationship and look forward to a happy healthy future together.
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