When you've recently ended a relationship but want to make it work this time, you have to work on getting your ex back.
Looking desperate won't really do you any good.
You might want to resort to some mind tricks like reverse psychology or soft-selling to get what you want.
Read on for tips.
Show that you're not into him or her anymore - This works on the philosophy that people like what they do not and cannot have.
Chances are, it's going to be your ex who is going to find out more about how you're doing now that you're single.
Become physically irresistible - You will need to re-ignite the sexual attraction.
This can be quite effective to get your ex's attention.
But be careful that you don't look desperate or trashy.
Start having a good time - Smiling and laughing is contagious.
This makes you look more relaxed.
Who wouldn't want to join a person with whom someone can have a good time with? Have what makes your ex drool - Bake your ex's favorite cookies, or buy something that he or she has been wanting very much.
Then you can share the cookies with himor even give the perfume to her just because you remembered that she liked that brand so much.
Be the go-to person in your common social circle - When your common friends are suddenly rushing to you for help, it'll show that you've become more reliable.
You'll get a good reputation, and your ex just might pay you a visit to ask for your help.
Build yourself a better life - Who wouldn't want to be with somebody stable and successful? Get rid of your debts, start cleaning up your house, aim for a better lifestyle, and take your career seriously.
Show your ex that you are now able to take care of yourself and even be stable enough to take him or her back into your life.