Surviving break - ups has always been a tough peril.
This is especially true if the relationship has lasted for years.
When you end a relationship, there are always two options: to move on or to get back with your ex.
Although the first option seems to be the best, the second one sometimes seems to be the wisest especially when you both invested time and emotions to make the relationship work.
So if the love is still there and you are up to the challenge, here are some ways how to get back with the ex.
1.
Figure out what you have done wrong.
Were you too restricting? Did he always fight for your time? Did you always prioritize your other friends before him? Being in denial would not help at this point, finding out the factor or factors that started the issues makes ironing it out a little easier.
2.
Learn how to say sorry.
If it is really your fault, then admit it.
Sometimes an apology is what all it takes to bring the pieces back.
3.
Make yourself look desirable again.
Getting a make over and doing a little shopping always pumps up your adrenaline and makes you more confident during your make up date.
4.
Avoid stalking.
We all know that getting back is something that you want badly, but begging and sounding desperate does not help at all.
Give him his space and leave him alone if that is what he wants.
When he is ready, then that is the time to patch things up.