It's the dreaded phrase that none of us want to hear: "I need a break.
" When your boyfriend says that he needs a break, most of us go into full-on panic mode.
We over-analyze the situation and worry about every little thing we did wrong.
We wonder if we were too clingy, or if we nagged too much, or if he is just not attracted to us anymore.
If your man told you he needs a break, but you want stop the breakup and get your man back, here are three things you need to do to get him back fast.
1.
Don't argue with him.
When your man says he needs a break, it could be for any reason.
Maybe you think you know the reason, but it could be something completely different from what you think.
If you want to get your man back and stop the breakup, now is not the time to drag the situation into a three week argument.
Instead, it is time to agree with him.
This is especially true if you tend to argue a lot and never get anywhere.
Even just this one tip could shock him into changing his mind because he won't be expecting you to say you need a break too.
2.
Write him a letter.
It doesn't need to be long and desperate.
Instead, it needs to be short and too the point.
Tell him that you are done arguing and that you want to take some time to yourself to think about what you would like to change in the relationship too.
Tell him that you understand why he needs a break and that you respect it.
Don't mention that you want to get him back.
3.
Adhere to the No Contact Rule.
This means that you give yourself a specific amount of time that you will have no contact with your boyfriend.
You decide how long that should be -- usually around a week or longer works best.
This means if he calls you in that time, you can't jump on the phone and call him immediately.
Give it a day or two before you call him back.
And don't initiate conversations or meetings with him.
Only call him if he calls you first, and only call him back after a couple of days have gone by.