Sometimes it is better that you move on when he dumps you.
Sometimes, it is good to let some time pass by so you could realize whether the break up was for your good or not.
Sometimes, you need to go back after him with all you have got.
When you decide to do this, you should know that there is only rule to this game - winning.
You keep your eyes firmly on the goal and ignore everything else of you want to win.
Here are the 7 steps that will ensure you win your ex boyfriend back: 1.
Forget about him for now - stop whining about him.
Stop even thinking about him - for now.
Look back into your relationship and analyze it carefully.
Why did he leave you? What do you think was the problem between the two of you? Ask your close friends what they thought was the problem between the two of you.
2.
Pay attention to how you look - in most cases, men complain that their super cool girlfriends after going steady become dull.
They stop caring for themselves and that literally puts off the fire in the relationship.
3.
Pay attention to your attitude - sometimes, you might sound too demanding, too emotional, too pushy, too bossy, too clingy.
A woman should be a little of all these, but if she lets any one of these attitudes dominate, she is in for trouble.
An attractive woman has only one attitude to wear - that of a woman in charge of her destiny, i.
e.
confident.
4.
Invite him out for a talk - when you do so, he should be able to see the change in you.
Men do not like to "talk" for they are not really equipped for emotional banter.
However, if you seem in charge of your feelings and exude inner confidence and control, he would be intrigued enough to know more about the new you to accept such an invitation.
5.
Start from ground zero - tell him that you feel he left you for whatever reason you think you identified in your earlier analysis.
Ask him whether it is correct.
Request him to tell you what made him take this step.
6.
Negotiate re-entry - let him know you still have feelings for him and are willing to work at the relationship.
7.
The decision is his - it is very important that you put no pressure on him to take a decision fast.
Trust me, he will come back to you.
Sometimes, it is good to let some time pass by so you could realize whether the break up was for your good or not.
Sometimes, you need to go back after him with all you have got.
When you decide to do this, you should know that there is only rule to this game - winning.
You keep your eyes firmly on the goal and ignore everything else of you want to win.
Here are the 7 steps that will ensure you win your ex boyfriend back: 1.
Forget about him for now - stop whining about him.
Stop even thinking about him - for now.
Look back into your relationship and analyze it carefully.
Why did he leave you? What do you think was the problem between the two of you? Ask your close friends what they thought was the problem between the two of you.
2.
Pay attention to how you look - in most cases, men complain that their super cool girlfriends after going steady become dull.
They stop caring for themselves and that literally puts off the fire in the relationship.
3.
Pay attention to your attitude - sometimes, you might sound too demanding, too emotional, too pushy, too bossy, too clingy.
A woman should be a little of all these, but if she lets any one of these attitudes dominate, she is in for trouble.
An attractive woman has only one attitude to wear - that of a woman in charge of her destiny, i.
e.
confident.
4.
Invite him out for a talk - when you do so, he should be able to see the change in you.
Men do not like to "talk" for they are not really equipped for emotional banter.
However, if you seem in charge of your feelings and exude inner confidence and control, he would be intrigued enough to know more about the new you to accept such an invitation.
5.
Start from ground zero - tell him that you feel he left you for whatever reason you think you identified in your earlier analysis.
Ask him whether it is correct.
Request him to tell you what made him take this step.
6.
Negotiate re-entry - let him know you still have feelings for him and are willing to work at the relationship.
7.
The decision is his - it is very important that you put no pressure on him to take a decision fast.
Trust me, he will come back to you.
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