So you've broken up with your soul mate and just when you thought you could get her back, you find out she's in a rebound relationship and now you're thinking, "now how do I get her back?" Well, don't worry because that is actually somewhat good news and will improve your chances of getting your ex back.
Typically, a rebound relationship means that she is just doing it to get over you, which means there is a good chance she is still in love with you, but instead of dealing with the break up, she uses a rebound relationship to deal with it.
So she's pretty much in that rebound relationship because she is still trying to deal with losing you.
This is key for getting your ex back.
Right now she is probably focusing on the things that went wrong with your relationship while she's in her rebound relationship.
In a nutshell, she's probably with someone who is the opposite of you.
Some one with opposite personality and interest.
Now believe it or not, this is a good thing, for a couple reasons.
The first reason is that even though she is with this new guy, if she's focused on what went wrong with your relationship then that means she is still focused on you.
Secondly, this is a good way for you to see what is is she's looking for and find out just what went wrong in your relationship.
So for example, if she is with someone who is the complete opposite of you, then there's a good chance that there was something she was missing from your relationship.
Since her new relationship is a rebound relationship, you have some time to work on those things and improve yourself.
A piece of advise...
don't bother with her rebound relationship.
Just let them go and let the relationship run it's course (it's not going to last long).
The more time she spends with this new guy, the better you're going to look.
After being with him she will start to notice his flaws and then you'll start to look good.
This is why it's important that you don't try to crawl back to her too fast.
During her rebound relationship she is going to start to realize how much she misses her relationship with you.
Once her rebound is done and she is ready to come back to you (this is what we want) be ready to except her.
Hopefully you have improved yourself and made a few changes, but whatever you do, do not chase her.
If you get word of the break up, let her come to you.
To help you out a little further, here are five specific steps to take when getting your ex back if she's in a rebound relationship: 1.
She will figure out that you are the love of her life when she's in this rebound relationship, so let her.
Don't try and convince her and chase after her because this will only make you look desperate and needy.
2.
Don't try to apologize to her every 10 seconds.
Even if you did do something wrong, say your sorry once and move on.
3.
Don't try to change and be someone your not.
Don't make promises to change and be someone else because that's not the person she's in love with.
4.
Don't make it a point to let her know that it wasn't your fault.
Don't make her get defensive, even if it wasn't your fault.
This will go a long way with her over time.
5.
Don't come across needy or desperate.
Simply put, don't ever, ever beg her to get back together.
When your ex starts to date someone immediately following your break up, this is just a rebound relationship and you stand a very good chance of getting your ex back.
Take this as a sign that she is still in love with you and that's why she's using the new guy to get over you.
A rebound relationship can work in your favor when trying to get your ex back.