It happens all the time.
You are in a relationship but continuously feel that there is something missing; you feel incomplete You may not be very sure what these missing links are as you continue to 'pretend' to be happy.
The tragedy is that a majority of us feel that to save your relationship you are in some kind of an obligation.
As otherwise, you might have to face stark loneliness, something most of us dread.
So the story continues - you are dong all that you can to save your relationship, only to feel confused and lost at the end of it all.
Perhaps it is time to take a review of the relationship that you are in, rather than going about saving a relationship, which may not be worth saving! This may sound harsh, but this is more often than not, the reality.
If you are feeling confused in a relationship and feel a sense of emptiness surrounding you all the time, the first thing you need to do is to find out the need gaps.
These may not be as apparent as you think, but a deeper probe can reveal a lot of hidden truths both about you and your partner as well as your individual expectations.
Compatibility is a concept that has no limitations.
It encompasses physical, mental, emotional, intellectual faculties and even more.
While it is not always possible to meet some who meets 100% of your expectations, you need to be compatible in a majority of the areas as mentioned, to be able to continue with the relationship successfully.
If you find that some minor tweaks can increase the level of compatibility, then it makes sense to make efforts to save your relationship.
Otherwise, accept that both of you are perhaps not compatible enough to continue and move on.
Compromise is another concept which is mostly underrated and misunderstood.
First of all, it has nothing to do with subservience or succumbing to someone under pressure, for the sake of a relationship.
In fact, making compromises has a lot to do with making adjustments to your personal likes and dislikes, for the sake of true love that you feel for the other person.
If you make compromises for the sake of love, then the pain of sacrificing something gets removed instantly.
But even then, a relationship takes both the partners to make it work.
More often than not, it is one of the partners who get loaded with these 'compromises'.
That is the time when the whole relationship seems burdensome and too difficult to handle.
If you are in such a relationship, check out whether this load can be shared.
If yes, then go ahead and try to save your relationship.
Or else, spare yourself the trouble and bother of trying to make do with a relationship that has no inner strength to fall back on and is weak at its core.
You are in a relationship but continuously feel that there is something missing; you feel incomplete You may not be very sure what these missing links are as you continue to 'pretend' to be happy.
The tragedy is that a majority of us feel that to save your relationship you are in some kind of an obligation.
As otherwise, you might have to face stark loneliness, something most of us dread.
So the story continues - you are dong all that you can to save your relationship, only to feel confused and lost at the end of it all.
Perhaps it is time to take a review of the relationship that you are in, rather than going about saving a relationship, which may not be worth saving! This may sound harsh, but this is more often than not, the reality.
If you are feeling confused in a relationship and feel a sense of emptiness surrounding you all the time, the first thing you need to do is to find out the need gaps.
These may not be as apparent as you think, but a deeper probe can reveal a lot of hidden truths both about you and your partner as well as your individual expectations.
Compatibility is a concept that has no limitations.
It encompasses physical, mental, emotional, intellectual faculties and even more.
While it is not always possible to meet some who meets 100% of your expectations, you need to be compatible in a majority of the areas as mentioned, to be able to continue with the relationship successfully.
If you find that some minor tweaks can increase the level of compatibility, then it makes sense to make efforts to save your relationship.
Otherwise, accept that both of you are perhaps not compatible enough to continue and move on.
Compromise is another concept which is mostly underrated and misunderstood.
First of all, it has nothing to do with subservience or succumbing to someone under pressure, for the sake of a relationship.
In fact, making compromises has a lot to do with making adjustments to your personal likes and dislikes, for the sake of true love that you feel for the other person.
If you make compromises for the sake of love, then the pain of sacrificing something gets removed instantly.
But even then, a relationship takes both the partners to make it work.
More often than not, it is one of the partners who get loaded with these 'compromises'.
That is the time when the whole relationship seems burdensome and too difficult to handle.
If you are in such a relationship, check out whether this load can be shared.
If yes, then go ahead and try to save your relationship.
Or else, spare yourself the trouble and bother of trying to make do with a relationship that has no inner strength to fall back on and is weak at its core.
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