So you have already broken up with your ex.
Perhaps, you have already decided to let go of your relationship.
But suddenly, your ex calls you up and tells you he/she wants you back.
So, what should you do? Should you get back together with him/her? Or should you just ignore your ex since you have already decided to move on? Well, if you are reading this article, most probably, you still want to get back together with your ex as well.
But before getting back together with our ex, it is important to consider certain issues.
Yes, you want to get back together with your ex.
And you also want your relationship to become stronger than before.
You do not want to go through another break up again.
So, before you made the final decision to patch up with him/her, it is best that you ask him/her out to have a heart to heart talk.
Since, your ex wants to get back together with you, it will be easier for you to ask him/her out to talk about this issue.
Both of you must be willing to explore the main reason that lead to your break up.
A break up doesn't just occur out of nowhere.
There must be some root problem that causes your break up.
Both of you must be willing to deal with the problem and solve it.
The solution may be you need to make some changes, Or maybe it is your partner.
Both of you need to be willing to make these necessary changes.
Don't fall into the trap of thinking that you can change your partner.
You will only end up frustrated.
You cannot change your ex unless he/she is motivated to change.
Although this is not a must, if you think it is necessary, you might even want to consider relationship counseling.
Ask someone you trusted for recommendation of a good counselor.