When a break up occurs it is difficult to figure out how to get an ex back and move forward especially if someone was hurt.
Chances are however, that both were hurt and both contributed to hurting each other as break ups are never civil.
In order to get your ex back you will need to repair the damage that was done and forgiveness will be the essential factor.
The process of learning how to get your ex back is going to involve learning humility not just by you but, by both of you.
Deciding that you, the individual, was more important than the couple or, what the two of you had as a couple, is just being plain, selfish.
This was, more than likely, what caused the break up in the first place.
When in a relationship, the two must become one in order to survive.
When one or both become selfish while in a relationship things begin to fall apart, as I am sure you are aware of now.
Part of life is making mistakes and it is true that some mistakes can be such big mistakes that they cannot be overcome.
Most mistakes made in a relationship are very trivial and are often made in the heat of the moment and tend to be way over exaggerated.
You need to realize that in the heat of the moment people don't think clearly and do and say things they don't mean.
When trying to get your ex back you need to think of the context in which the wrong thing done or said was in.
Think about what was going on at the time when things started going bad.
Think back, was there something going on in either one of your lives that was outside of the relationship that may have caused stress or stain in the relationship.
If there was and you can determine what it was you will have a much better chance to get your ex back.
Was your pride hurt when the break up occurred? If so, can you forgive your ex? Can you swallow your pride knowing it was just a mistake and knowing what you had was better than the things that drove you apart? Are you willing to forgive and forget? You will have to if you want to get your ex back.
If you were the one that caused the break up and hurt your partner then you will have to swallow your pride as well.
Realize and admit to your mistakes, own up to them and take responsibility for your actions.
In order to get your ex back you will have to realize that it is important that you learn how to correct the way you handle situations, to avoid handling situations the wrong way over and over again, you may want to consider counseling.
You cannot expect the outcome of certain situations to be different or change if you do not change the way you handle them.
Both of you will need to approach each other with humility.
Nether can hold themselves higher than the other.
Both of you will have to stop thinking you are too good to go back and say "I am sorry" and when one of you does come back and say "I'm sorry," the other cannot hold it above their head saying "you should be you are the one that made the mistake.
" Once you decide that what you had as a couple in a great relationship is more important than problems that drove you apart, you will be able to forgive each other and work together to resolve the situation and, once again, become a happy couple.
Chances are however, that both were hurt and both contributed to hurting each other as break ups are never civil.
In order to get your ex back you will need to repair the damage that was done and forgiveness will be the essential factor.
The process of learning how to get your ex back is going to involve learning humility not just by you but, by both of you.
Deciding that you, the individual, was more important than the couple or, what the two of you had as a couple, is just being plain, selfish.
This was, more than likely, what caused the break up in the first place.
When in a relationship, the two must become one in order to survive.
When one or both become selfish while in a relationship things begin to fall apart, as I am sure you are aware of now.
Part of life is making mistakes and it is true that some mistakes can be such big mistakes that they cannot be overcome.
Most mistakes made in a relationship are very trivial and are often made in the heat of the moment and tend to be way over exaggerated.
You need to realize that in the heat of the moment people don't think clearly and do and say things they don't mean.
When trying to get your ex back you need to think of the context in which the wrong thing done or said was in.
Think about what was going on at the time when things started going bad.
Think back, was there something going on in either one of your lives that was outside of the relationship that may have caused stress or stain in the relationship.
If there was and you can determine what it was you will have a much better chance to get your ex back.
Was your pride hurt when the break up occurred? If so, can you forgive your ex? Can you swallow your pride knowing it was just a mistake and knowing what you had was better than the things that drove you apart? Are you willing to forgive and forget? You will have to if you want to get your ex back.
If you were the one that caused the break up and hurt your partner then you will have to swallow your pride as well.
Realize and admit to your mistakes, own up to them and take responsibility for your actions.
In order to get your ex back you will have to realize that it is important that you learn how to correct the way you handle situations, to avoid handling situations the wrong way over and over again, you may want to consider counseling.
You cannot expect the outcome of certain situations to be different or change if you do not change the way you handle them.
Both of you will need to approach each other with humility.
Nether can hold themselves higher than the other.
Both of you will have to stop thinking you are too good to go back and say "I am sorry" and when one of you does come back and say "I'm sorry," the other cannot hold it above their head saying "you should be you are the one that made the mistake.
" Once you decide that what you had as a couple in a great relationship is more important than problems that drove you apart, you will be able to forgive each other and work together to resolve the situation and, once again, become a happy couple.
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