As far as relationships are concerned, some things never change -- including the fact that people screw up and then make it worse by trying to gloss it over.
If you want sure shot ways to get your ex back fast, then you'll have to go the extra mile.
Best thing you can do is bring a neutral third-party into the mess to give you an objective point of view.
Because, let's face it, you're responsible for getting into this mess and even you would agree that the situation went beyond your control.
So call a close friend or family member who has your best interests at heart.
Or perhaps even a therapist.
Ask for help and do what you're told to do.
To make things even more easy, simply cave in to your ex's demands.
You got into this mess by trying to win arguments or doing things which your ex didn't like.
Go the other way, and tell your ex you're willing to concede all aforementioned arguments and secondly, that you won't be doing what your ex didn't like.
Make it explicitly clear that your ex wins.
No half-hearted stuff -- give away the house.
A winner is always generous towards the loser, and if your ex thinks that he or she has won, then you'll be back in together in no time.
You can also go the other way, and get your ex to think that you're no longer pining to get back together.
It's psychology -- you don't need your ex anymore, but your ex needs you, which means your ex will come crawling back to you.
The concept is simple, but the execution is fraught with danger, because it means that you need to get into a relationship with someone else - or at least make a show of it.
If you do it properly, you'll end up actually getting over your ex, and your ex will want to get back with you.
It's a win-win situation.
But if you screw it up -- as in if your ex realizes that it was all a trick -- then you're in big-big trouble.
So be careful with this one.
And lastly, get yourself a complete image makeover -- a brand new look and a better personality.
Think back to when you and your ex hooked up, and what your ex liked about you.
Then compare that with what you are now, and see if you can find what changes you need to make in yourself.
Physical attraction and personality are a big factor when it comes to successful relationships, and if you lose sight of either or both, then getting your mojo back is the only way to get your ex back.
If you want sure shot ways to get your ex back fast, then you'll have to go the extra mile.
Best thing you can do is bring a neutral third-party into the mess to give you an objective point of view.
Because, let's face it, you're responsible for getting into this mess and even you would agree that the situation went beyond your control.
So call a close friend or family member who has your best interests at heart.
Or perhaps even a therapist.
Ask for help and do what you're told to do.
To make things even more easy, simply cave in to your ex's demands.
You got into this mess by trying to win arguments or doing things which your ex didn't like.
Go the other way, and tell your ex you're willing to concede all aforementioned arguments and secondly, that you won't be doing what your ex didn't like.
Make it explicitly clear that your ex wins.
No half-hearted stuff -- give away the house.
A winner is always generous towards the loser, and if your ex thinks that he or she has won, then you'll be back in together in no time.
You can also go the other way, and get your ex to think that you're no longer pining to get back together.
It's psychology -- you don't need your ex anymore, but your ex needs you, which means your ex will come crawling back to you.
The concept is simple, but the execution is fraught with danger, because it means that you need to get into a relationship with someone else - or at least make a show of it.
If you do it properly, you'll end up actually getting over your ex, and your ex will want to get back with you.
It's a win-win situation.
But if you screw it up -- as in if your ex realizes that it was all a trick -- then you're in big-big trouble.
So be careful with this one.
And lastly, get yourself a complete image makeover -- a brand new look and a better personality.
Think back to when you and your ex hooked up, and what your ex liked about you.
Then compare that with what you are now, and see if you can find what changes you need to make in yourself.
Physical attraction and personality are a big factor when it comes to successful relationships, and if you lose sight of either or both, then getting your mojo back is the only way to get your ex back.
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