If you had just undergone a break up with someone whom you have a relationship for a long time, it is pretty normal to feel like you have lost a good limb.
Of course living on will be hard especially if you have been doing things together with your ex.
You feel that you can't just simply go on without that person.
You want him or her back.
Here are four sure shot ways to pull your ex back.
Let it go.
It's not easy to let go but obviously this is the best thing to do for now.
Let go of the feeling of dependency otherwise you will look forlorn all the time and mooning over your ex.
The thing is, you need to make your ex feel that you can still live normally without him or her.
Once you've embraced this fact, change your hairstyle and meet up with your friends.
When you see your ex, just act casually.
Don't be bitter.
This might be a little hard to do.
But the purpose of this is that you need your ex to know that you have accepted the truth already and is ready to move on again.
Call your ex and tell them that you appreciate the new chapter in your life and that somehow he gave you some good memories that you can cherish.
Just don't be too insensitive and always make sure that you leave a clue that your feelings for your ex will never change.
Have a makeover.
Pamper yourself.
You have been neglecting yourself for some time now.
Be gorgeous and do not look stressed out.
This is for your own good.
Move on.
Give them a hint that you are ready to move on...
It does not matter how you do it, verbally or through body language, but make sure that you make it real.
This will scare your ex that he or she might lose you soon.
These might be risky but if you execute your plan properly, this will work out well.