Do you want to get your ex back? If you are serious about doing this you are going to have to take a really good look at yourself first.
You want to be able to be sure you fully understand what went wrong with your relationship so you can make the right decisions.
It does not make any difference if you or your ex caused the break up, you are the one that decided to get your ex back and you will have to make some changes.
Look at what you could have contributed to the break up, what you discover is what you must concentrate on now, so you can show improvements to yourself.
Take responsibility for your actions; do not blame everything on your ex, you contributed in some way to your relationship problems.
If you can confess to your ex what you did to cause any problems, most likely she will do the same for you.
Honesty is really the best medicine.
When it comes time to talk to your ex do not hold back, it would be best to confront those topics that caused the two of you break up.
Avoiding those topics only allows the two of you to get around the issues without fixing anything.
If you were to get back together without making any repairs the problems are still there and a break up could happen again.
If you or your ex had dated someone else which in turn caused your break up, be honest about it.
Maybe you were feeling restless and wandered one time, this happens sometimes with couples that are dating.
The other person will be angry and hurt at first but pain subsides with time.
As long as both of you confront the issue together it can be overcome.
A key to being able to talk over why the break up happened and what can be done to fix it is not to argue.
When one of you raises your voice or starts to argue a point, the discussion can go bad from there.
Let the other person say what they must to get it off their chest and you do the same.
Listen to any complaints or suggestions with an open mind.
If you manage to get back together with your ex, keep in mind that you are not starting your relationship where you left off.
Take things easy at first so there is no pressure between you.
Let the relationship develop at its own pace and you will find it to be more successful.
You want to be able to be sure you fully understand what went wrong with your relationship so you can make the right decisions.
It does not make any difference if you or your ex caused the break up, you are the one that decided to get your ex back and you will have to make some changes.
Look at what you could have contributed to the break up, what you discover is what you must concentrate on now, so you can show improvements to yourself.
Take responsibility for your actions; do not blame everything on your ex, you contributed in some way to your relationship problems.
If you can confess to your ex what you did to cause any problems, most likely she will do the same for you.
Honesty is really the best medicine.
When it comes time to talk to your ex do not hold back, it would be best to confront those topics that caused the two of you break up.
Avoiding those topics only allows the two of you to get around the issues without fixing anything.
If you were to get back together without making any repairs the problems are still there and a break up could happen again.
If you or your ex had dated someone else which in turn caused your break up, be honest about it.
Maybe you were feeling restless and wandered one time, this happens sometimes with couples that are dating.
The other person will be angry and hurt at first but pain subsides with time.
As long as both of you confront the issue together it can be overcome.
A key to being able to talk over why the break up happened and what can be done to fix it is not to argue.
When one of you raises your voice or starts to argue a point, the discussion can go bad from there.
Let the other person say what they must to get it off their chest and you do the same.
Listen to any complaints or suggestions with an open mind.
If you manage to get back together with your ex, keep in mind that you are not starting your relationship where you left off.
Take things easy at first so there is no pressure between you.
Let the relationship develop at its own pace and you will find it to be more successful.
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