When you want to get your ex back, you often feel desperate, which can cause us to do things that will only ensure that we lose them for good.
If you truly want to get your ex back, read on for the top three things NOT to do.
#1 Do Not Call Them.
No Way, No How! Do Not Do It! No matter how much you desire to contact your ex, do NOT do it.
Both you and your ex are hurt and angry after the breakup and trying to contact them too soon is the most common mistake people make when trying to get your ex back.
You ex does not want to see or talk to you right now, if you want to get them back, you must respect that.
You need to give him or her time to get over their hurt before approaching them.
#2 Do NOT Try to Make Them Jealous Another common mistake that usually ends up backfiring.
You are will to try anything to get your ex back and think that making them jealous is the perfect thing to do to make them want you again.
This is highly unlikely to happen.
What is more likely is that you will simply push them further away.
#3 Do Not Talk Bad About Them and Do Not Whine If you are speaking badly about your ex to your friends, this is a surefire way to make your ex more angry, not increase your chances of getting them back.
Trust me, word will get back to them and they won't take kindly to be talked about.
In a nutshell, you do not want talk endlessly to your friends about how unhappy and miserable you are, or what a jerk your ex was to leave you.
This too will get back to them and will only make them feel guilt tripped and as though you cannot live without them.
And most people are turned off by codependency.
Keep these common mistakes in mind if you truly want to get your ex back.
Rather than do something that will serve to push them away, find ways to endear yourself to them once again.
If you play your cards right, chances are you and your ex will get back together again.