Tell her friends what they need to hear Sometimes her friends can be your greatest allies, even if they don't know it.
All you have to do is tell them what you need your ex to know, and before you know it, they'll be texting and calling everyone they know about what's going on, including your ex.
If the word gets out that you're happy without her, your ex will begin to miss you.
Don't call back If she calls, don't call back.
If she texts you, don't respond.
If she leaves you a voicemail, don't rush to return the call at all.
Sometimes it's what you don't say that weighs heavier on her mind than anything you say to her.
Always too busy for her When she tries to spend time with you, always have something else to do.
Even if all you have to do is sit at home and play video games, make that the priority.
What this does is show her your time is valuable, so she'll appreciate it more when you do make time for her.
Keep your cool The fact that you're trying to make her miss you means you miss her, but you can't let her know that.
Never let her see you sweat, keep your cool and remain calm.
Seeing you so calm and confident will definitely grab her attention.
Pretend like you don't remember When she tries to talk to you about your past, about places the two of you went, tell her you don't remember.
Even if you do, even if it's one of the clearest memories of your past that you have, you can't let her know that.
Play it cool, act like you don't recall it.
This makes it seem as though it wasn't as important to you, and makes her dwell on it more.
Deny affection If she tries to hold your hand, or hug you, or kiss you, politely pull away from her.
You don't have to say anything.
The fact that you pulled away will make her want to give it to you more.
She will struggle to deal with the fact that you aren't acting the way you used to and this will get her more curious.
Give her something to miss Show her that you're doing just fine without her.
If she sees that you're going on with your life, the more she will want to be a part of this new life.
This means your plan is working, and soon, the two of you will be back together.