Losing a lover is traumatic in more ways than one.
You not only lose your best friend but also find life coming to a standstill in all respects.
If you do not know where to start the process of regaining lost love and get your ex back - start on a positive note; this dream is very possible to achieve.
The only reason why you are feeling so lost is because you still have not found your bearings after the breakup.
Give yourself some time and let the thoughts settle down and the nerves get calmed.
Better mental health is indicated by improved appetite and an improved sense of well being.
If you are feeling mentally stable, it is time to start the process of regaining your lost lover.
If you have not made any effort in contacting your ex, you are already moving in the right path.
Time heals and your ex needs it too.
Use this time of separation to come to terms with the mistakes you made to spoil the relationship.
Knowing these facts can help you talk meaningfully with your ex when the two of you eventually meet.
Your admissions of guilt can also put your ex's mind at rest regarding your keenness to mend ways and repair the damaged relationship.
This time is also useful in making the hearts go fonder.
You start missing each other; after all you are so used to being in each other's company all the time.
The absence from each other can become really intense after a while when neither of you are willing to wait any longer.
This is precisely what you want to happen; making the situation desperate for your ex too.
The best apart about this separation is also that both of you have had the time to think about how to progress with the relationship in a more civilized and mature manner so that such situations do not arise in future.
As you can see, the only trusted way to get your ex back is to give each other time.