If you have been trying to get your ex to come back to you after breaking up, you know how difficult it is.
You've been trying everything you can think of and nothing has worked.
You have failed and are desperate and want to know what can you possibly do.
What can happen is you get dumped and you still have love for your ex, but your ex has the upper hand.
In a way they have some power over you and they know it.
What's worse is that we mostly don't know how to be successful at getting our ex back because its not something that's commonly taught or talked about.
Being your ex has control over you, they can string you along as you make your desperate efforts at getting them back.
They know that you want them back and they may be enjoying this game with you.
If you really want to be successful at getting them back you need to change your tactics now.
Back off from them now, make yourself disappear from your ex's radar screen.
If you have been actively trying to get them back stop, and if you have just broken up don't contact them.
Don't clue them in that you want to get them back, they do not need to know this.
If you and your partner are about ready to break up the best bet is to agree to it when it happens.
Don't fight about it because you will put more distance between you, not to mention more anger.
Make the break up as peaceful as possible then disappear from them, then when it comes time to get them back you will have better success.
While you are separated keep yourself busy so you can keep your mind off of them.
If your ex calls you be nice, talk for a couple minutes then say your busy and must go, be polite to them.
Being you broke up without a fight will make it easier to slowly move closer to your ex.
Don't rush it, let it happen naturally.