If you are going through this situation right now, do not lose hope.
It may seem bad right now and it may seem hopeless, but taking the right steps and moving in the right direction will ensure that you can indeed get your ex back.
No matter what you said or what you did, taking some time off from each other is the best thing if you want to get your ex back.
If your ex does not want to speak to you believe me when I say that it is temporary and will not last forever.
Just like when we get into a bad argument with a family member or a good friend, it rarely lasts forever.
Both people just need some time away from each other to cool off and to think about all of the things that were said.
Taking this kind of time away from each other will help you to appreciate each other more and to see what is really important.
Not the bad argument and subsequent break up, but how much you mean to each other and how much you have been there for each other in the past.
We just never see that after a break up because our heads are too clouded with who did what to each other and how much hurt we are going through.
Take time away from each other at least for a few days or weeks and when you feel things have blown over then you can contact your ex and try to work on your relationship.