You kind of feel like you are getting some mixed signals from your ex girlfriend,because she is still talking to you and at the same time,she is still your ex girlfriend.
You'd like for that to change.
You'd like to be able to find a way to make her become your current girlfriend,but that is one of those situations that is easier said than done.
You want to end the confusion and you are curious if it is really a good sign that she still talks to you after the break up.
Most of the time,it is a good sign.
There are those times when all it means is that she wants to stay friends,however,so you do have to be careful that you are not reading too much into things.
You don't want to get your hopes up about possibly being able to get back with her,only to find out that she really was just looking to remain friends with you.
So,there are some things that you may want to pay attention to so that you have a better idea of what it is that is going on inside her mind.
Here are a few things that you want to look for: 1.
You want to make sure that she isn't just using you as someone to talk to because there isn't anyone else for her to talk with.
It's easy tobecome that sounding board that your ex girlfriend needs when she has something that she wants to get off of her mind,but that doesn't mean that she wants to be back together.
If you know that she really doesn't have anyone to talk to and she seems to be using you as a sound board to deal with her "stuff,"then you might want to conclude that this is all that it is and it doesn't mean anything more than that to her.
2.
You want to pay attention to whether or not she is leaving any clues that she is thinking about getting back together with you.
If she hints at the idea of getting back together or she talks about how fun it was when you were dating or how much she misses you and being a couple or things like that, it could mean that she is thinking about getting back together and she is just trying to drop some hints because she doesn't want to come right out and say it.
Pay careful attention to the way that she talks to see if you can pick up on any clues that might suggest that she is thinking about getting back together with you.
If you find some,then you may want to conclude that it IS a good sign that she is still talking to you.
3.
You also want to pay attention to what is going on in YOUR mind.
It's easy to chase shadows when you want something to happen,but you have to be careful that you are not seeing things that are not really there.
Sometimes,when you really want something to be true - like wanting your ex girlfriend to want you back - you can find yourself coming up with signs that don't really mean a thing,but you are interpreting them as meaning that she wants to be back with you.
You'd like for that to change.
You'd like to be able to find a way to make her become your current girlfriend,but that is one of those situations that is easier said than done.
You want to end the confusion and you are curious if it is really a good sign that she still talks to you after the break up.
Most of the time,it is a good sign.
There are those times when all it means is that she wants to stay friends,however,so you do have to be careful that you are not reading too much into things.
You don't want to get your hopes up about possibly being able to get back with her,only to find out that she really was just looking to remain friends with you.
So,there are some things that you may want to pay attention to so that you have a better idea of what it is that is going on inside her mind.
Here are a few things that you want to look for: 1.
You want to make sure that she isn't just using you as someone to talk to because there isn't anyone else for her to talk with.
It's easy tobecome that sounding board that your ex girlfriend needs when she has something that she wants to get off of her mind,but that doesn't mean that she wants to be back together.
If you know that she really doesn't have anyone to talk to and she seems to be using you as a sound board to deal with her "stuff,"then you might want to conclude that this is all that it is and it doesn't mean anything more than that to her.
2.
You want to pay attention to whether or not she is leaving any clues that she is thinking about getting back together with you.
If she hints at the idea of getting back together or she talks about how fun it was when you were dating or how much she misses you and being a couple or things like that, it could mean that she is thinking about getting back together and she is just trying to drop some hints because she doesn't want to come right out and say it.
Pay careful attention to the way that she talks to see if you can pick up on any clues that might suggest that she is thinking about getting back together with you.
If you find some,then you may want to conclude that it IS a good sign that she is still talking to you.
3.
You also want to pay attention to what is going on in YOUR mind.
It's easy to chase shadows when you want something to happen,but you have to be careful that you are not seeing things that are not really there.
Sometimes,when you really want something to be true - like wanting your ex girlfriend to want you back - you can find yourself coming up with signs that don't really mean a thing,but you are interpreting them as meaning that she wants to be back with you.
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