Now that your relationship has fallen apart, you are so depressed right now - having tried, unsuccessfully to get your ex to hear you out - that you do not feel as though anything could possible change the outcome of your situation. However not all hope is lost. Read on to find out how effective and simple reverse psychology is and you'll likely be willing to give getting your relationship back on track just one more try.
Reverse psychology is basically the technique of doing or saying the opposite of what one expects from you. It is amazingly simple and highly effective and more often than not, provides successful results.
At the moment, you ex knows you are at home, miserable after the split. You've told your friends all about how depressed and lonely you are, and you can bet this will get back to your ex. So give them something to think about - use reverse psychology - and make yourself go out and have a good time, no matter how much you aren't feeling it.
If you've let yourself go since the breakup, do something about it. If not, consider getting a makeover or updating your look. This will give you a much need boost of self-confidence and will certainly turn heads - including your exes. Go out, have fun, shock your friends by suddenly being that carefree person you used to be.
This is the first step in the use of reverse psychology. Your ex will hear about this sudden shift in behavior and will be taken aback by your responding in such an unexpected manner to the breakup. They are likely to call you to want to find out what is going on. This is yet another opportunity to put reverse psychology into action. Your ex still expects you to react to hearing from them - perhaps they expect you to tearfully beg them for their return - but do NOT give them the satisfaction. Tell them that you are busy at the moment, but they can feel free to call you at some other time. They will be beside themselves at your response. The next time they call will be your opportunity to get your ex back into your life once again.
Reverse psychology is basically the technique of doing or saying the opposite of what one expects from you. It is amazingly simple and highly effective and more often than not, provides successful results.
At the moment, you ex knows you are at home, miserable after the split. You've told your friends all about how depressed and lonely you are, and you can bet this will get back to your ex. So give them something to think about - use reverse psychology - and make yourself go out and have a good time, no matter how much you aren't feeling it.
If you've let yourself go since the breakup, do something about it. If not, consider getting a makeover or updating your look. This will give you a much need boost of self-confidence and will certainly turn heads - including your exes. Go out, have fun, shock your friends by suddenly being that carefree person you used to be.
This is the first step in the use of reverse psychology. Your ex will hear about this sudden shift in behavior and will be taken aback by your responding in such an unexpected manner to the breakup. They are likely to call you to want to find out what is going on. This is yet another opportunity to put reverse psychology into action. Your ex still expects you to react to hearing from them - perhaps they expect you to tearfully beg them for their return - but do NOT give them the satisfaction. Tell them that you are busy at the moment, but they can feel free to call you at some other time. They will be beside themselves at your response. The next time they call will be your opportunity to get your ex back into your life once again.
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