Are you on the receiving end of a breakup and want to know how to win someone back? Well make sure you have the right mindset in order for you to complete this important task! You need to think correctly! Realize that you have a life to live whether you and your ex get back together or not.
Your happiness is in your hands, not hers/his.
No person can be expected to take responsibility for another one's happiness.
You may be upset, maybe even a little depressed, but do not try to lay that on your ex.
To do so would only be a source of more hard feelings and reduce the chances of reconciliation.
However, you need to be able to manage and control your emotions like a mature adult.
I'm sure when you first met your ex you weren't such a mess emotionally were you? That's how you got them int he first place! So think back of be that person who was able to draw the attention of your ex! Then try to be like that person again.
The sooner you are able to achieve this positive outlook, the sooner you will become that person your ex found attractive in the first place, and the more likely she he is to begin to question why they broke up with you in the first place.
Be stronger and be a more confident you! Be that person who your ex fell in love with.
So you need to start of by stop feeling sorry for yourself.
What you need to do is go out.
Get out there and be active.
Don't just sit at home and mope.
That will only make things worse and it will actually stop you from getting your ex back! Once you're in a more fit and healthy mindset, then you'll be ready to implement a plan that will truly be able to get your ex back without you begging for them to come back to you.
But don't worry, there's still hope for you, as long as you learn the psychological mind triggers and apply them properly you'll be able to get your ex back without a problem.
Most of the time anyway.