You can do it if you use these tips and techniques and he won't even realize that you are trying to get him back.
Are you trying to find ways to get your ex boyfriend back? We all know that men can be difficult and if it's your ex boyfriend it can be tougher.
If you really want to find a way to get him back, you will need to follow some basic rules which may at first seem difficult but...
you do want him back right? It doesn't really matter why you want him back or why you care so much about him.
Maybe you didn't even realize how much you loved him until he was gone.
Now you have to figure out why he's gone, why did the two of you breakup in the first place? Knowing these will help you to avoid having the same problems when you do get back together but you can only control your own actions and emotions.
If you feel that the reasons for the breakup can be fixed and forgotten and that you can now just move past them, great.
Wait a minute, let's not get ahead of ourselves here.
You need to let go for a while and let your ex boyfriend have some time alone so that he can start to miss you.
Letting him see what life without you is really like is one of the keys to getting him back.
That means no phone calls, no emails, absolutely nothing.
While this may be hard for you at first, it will get easier.
If you act like you can live without him and that you are moving on, he is much more likely to miss you and want you back.
He will think that you have begun to lose interest and that you aren't even trying to get him back.
Let him have those feelings and thoughts for a while.
It really won't take as long as it seems to and if it is hard for you, remember the payoff.
You can get him back.
Take this time to work on who you are and who you want to be.
Spend some time with friends, maybe even go out on a casual date or two but don't get to serious if you really want your ex back because that will only cause more problems when he does start to show an interest in you again.
By staying positive and happy, you build you own self esteem and self confidence and almost all guys are attracted to a woman who is sure of herself.
Be yourself and he will begin to want to get back with you because he did fall in love with the strong woman that you are in the first place.
When he does start to call, don't just jump and run right back into his arms.
You should play hard to get but not too hard to get.
Stay busy so that when he calls you are not always available.
Believe me, this will only make him want to be with you even more because we all want what we think we can't have.
Try to act like you have just begun to date and that you really aren't all that eager to get back together.
Take it slow and don't jump into bed with him on your first date back together.
Let your relationship build back up to the way it used to be slowly and your chances of getting him back and keeping him will be much better.
Often a guy will call his ex and just expect them to be there.
Once they get what they want, they move on again because it was so easy and they know they can probably just call and you will jump without them having to make any kind of commitment, so go slow.
With patience and the right attitude you can easily find ways to get your ex boyfriend back and he won't even know that you are trying.
The best way to get an ex back is to have a step by step plan in place and you can put that plan together by reading the magic of making up.
Written by someone who has been there, it has helped many couples find their way back to each other.
Oh and above all else, never give up on yourself.