The breakup is the saddest experience that makes you forlorn, upset and dissipated.
If your boyfriend has deserted you, there must be some genuine reason.
Something wrong will be either on your side or his.
Of course, people lament for doing nothing wrong, whereas they are really guilty of the wrongdoings.
However, check out whether it is your guilt for the reason of breakup or your boyfriend's fault for the split.
Now if you are right on your side, then you need not to surrender to him.
You should keep your pride protected.
This does not mean that you should remain rigid and should not be submissive if he is taking the initiative.
However, don't haste, because haste is waste.
Otherwise, your boyfriend will perceive that his certain move softens you and this will spoil the whole game.
Take the breakup positively and be out of your boyfriend's reach for some weeks.
It is universal truth that absence makes heart grow fonder.
Your withdrawal from his life will certainly move your boyfriend and he will try to contact you somehow, even through mobile calls or sending messages through friends.
However, avoid calling your boyfriend up for some more weeks.
Let him feel the pains of separation that you have gone through.
This will make your ex boyfriend ashamed of himself.
Always remember boys are impatient in the matter of love and they hastily take decisions, whether the issue may be of separation or reconciliation.
His remorse will pull him back into your life and he will crawl back to you in no time.
Before this time comes you should play the trick safely, because the trump card is at your hand.
Your haste might turn the table on and he might move farther away.
What you have to do is be patient and then when the right time comes, submit yourself to him.
Now your relations will be stronger than before.