Nothing hurts worse than a break up.
Most of us have been there and endured getting our hearts broken at one time or another and know we would rather get our teeth pulled out without Novocain than endure such pain.
But all is not lost when your boyfriend or girlfriend tells you to hit the road.
You can get them to get back to you, you just have to follow the rules.
Look at it this way - at one time, they loved you enough to go out with you.
You are still the same person.
Perhaps you got too clingy, needy or they just got plain scared of commitment.
If you want to know how to make up and get your ex back to you, here are 3 tips to help you get your ex back: Do Not Plead, Beg, Cry Or Send Gifts Save your money, tears and dignity by following this very important tip when it comes to getting your ex back.
When someone hurts us, our normal instinct is to try to protect ourselves by getting rid of the hurt.
We may feel that pleading and begging will get them back.
Some people send flowers or gifts to get back with a boyfriend or girlfriend.
This only makes you look more needy.
People don't like needy people, they like confident people.
Do not crawl.
It will only lower their opinion of you and further shatter your self esteem.
Give Them Some Time Do not call them, drive by their house, go by their favorite hang out or send them text messages, e-mails or letters.
Give them time and space.
If they broke up with you, there is nothing you can do to control their behavior, but there is plenty you can do to control your own.
This may be the most difficult thing that you have to do, but it will be worth it, because it can actually help you in getting your ex back.
Take it one day at a time and resist all urges at contact.
Look for ways to re-build your own confidence instead of theirs.
Contact In One Month After a month of no contact and you feel an sense of restored confidence, give them a call.
Ask how they are doing.
This will make them see you not as someone who "needs" them, but as someone who is confident with themselves.
Confidence is the key in getting your ex back.
Most of us have been there and endured getting our hearts broken at one time or another and know we would rather get our teeth pulled out without Novocain than endure such pain.
But all is not lost when your boyfriend or girlfriend tells you to hit the road.
You can get them to get back to you, you just have to follow the rules.
Look at it this way - at one time, they loved you enough to go out with you.
You are still the same person.
Perhaps you got too clingy, needy or they just got plain scared of commitment.
If you want to know how to make up and get your ex back to you, here are 3 tips to help you get your ex back: Do Not Plead, Beg, Cry Or Send Gifts Save your money, tears and dignity by following this very important tip when it comes to getting your ex back.
When someone hurts us, our normal instinct is to try to protect ourselves by getting rid of the hurt.
We may feel that pleading and begging will get them back.
Some people send flowers or gifts to get back with a boyfriend or girlfriend.
This only makes you look more needy.
People don't like needy people, they like confident people.
Do not crawl.
It will only lower their opinion of you and further shatter your self esteem.
Give Them Some Time Do not call them, drive by their house, go by their favorite hang out or send them text messages, e-mails or letters.
Give them time and space.
If they broke up with you, there is nothing you can do to control their behavior, but there is plenty you can do to control your own.
This may be the most difficult thing that you have to do, but it will be worth it, because it can actually help you in getting your ex back.
Take it one day at a time and resist all urges at contact.
Look for ways to re-build your own confidence instead of theirs.
Contact In One Month After a month of no contact and you feel an sense of restored confidence, give them a call.
Ask how they are doing.
This will make them see you not as someone who "needs" them, but as someone who is confident with themselves.
Confidence is the key in getting your ex back.
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