Family & Relationships Conflict

I Dumped My Girlfriend - Now What?

"I dumped my girlfriend.
Now what?" Sounds like what you've been saying or thinking recently, doesn't it? You had no idea post break up life would be like this.
You love her still and you've just now come to that conclusion.
You've got no clue how to erase what's happened so she'll love you again.
Perhaps you think it's impossible.
It's actually not.
Even if the break up was ugly and painful, there is a way to overcome it.
Obviously it means you have to take some dramatic steps, but with the right approach, the woman you love will be yours again before too long.
You have to make amends for dumping her.
That's not a step you can skip over.
It's essential in your plan to get her back so you need to conjure up the necessary courage and apologize to her.
Don't take the easy way out and do this via text message or email.
It won't have nearly the impact of actually calling her or seeing her in person will.
You have to be strong when you do apologize and it has to come from a genuine place within you.
If you're simply doing it to go through the motions, she'll be able to tell right away.
Using that conversation to try and plead your case for why she should come back to you is a horrible idea.
The reason being that she needs time to absorb the apology first and foremost.
If you try and launch directly into a speech about all your redeeming qualities right after you say sorry to her, she'll value the sincerity of your apology less.
Keep that conversation completely on the topic of your regrets.
You'll have plenty of time in the future to get her to understand how much you mean to her.
The next part of your plan to get her to want to be with you again is tedious but necessary.
You have to show her that you're worth loving again.
She's going to be wary because you dumped her.
You can't blame her for that.
You have to get her to trust in your adoration and love for her.
Do that by showing her constantly that you want to be a better person for her.
You need to do this without the expectation of getting her back hanging over your heads.
In other words, don't constantly tell her that you need her or love her still.
Instead, work on becoming a confidante and friend to her.
Each little step you make towards getting her to trust you and open up to you again is a step in the right direction.
Over time she'll let the walls down and she'll be willing to try being your girlfriend once again.
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