It's hard to come back to normal life when you get dumped by your partner unexpectedly.
It is very difficult to digest as though nothing is wrong and you'll be feeling the loneliness all the time.
You can't just manage to get out and be the normal happy person again.
I've been through this pain and that's why I'm telling you this.
You can win your ex back as I did even after being dumped.
First thing you should do is to improve yourself and make your lifestyle the way your spouse likes and is impressed.
Achieve your goal, get a good job or increase your skills in some sport.
You could multi task and try to make yourself as though you do not have any time for anything except work.
Remain single and make yourself busy.
Your newly gained responsibility might make your spouse feel that you're really the right person and might make your ex to reconcile with you.
Prove yourself to your ex by showing that you still love them by having regular contact.
Make your ex know that you are one of your ex's well wishers.
Focus on your career and don't devote time to your ex for a month or so.
Your new improved career could make your ex to reconcile.
If you go on like this and really achieve your goals, it'll really put you in a better position.
You're new found position will really impress your ex and if you could just establish contact after improving.
You'll be going out on a date with your ex in just 3 months.