When you're wondering "what will it take to get back with my ex?" it can consume your life.
You think of your ex when you wake up in the morning.
Any love song on the radio can make you think of them.
Even commercials can make you wish that you had your ex back.
But if your break up was complicated, or if your ex won't talk to you right now, your situation can seem almost hopeless.
It can feel like you are a million miles away from making up with your ex.
What should you do? Of course, while some break ups are worse than others, it is almost never impossible to get your ex back.
The two of you loved each other once, so chances are good that there is still love between you.
It's just clouded right now by bad feelings and problems.
When you are thinking "what will it take to get back with my ex?" you are on the right track.
Just that you are asking that question means that it's not hopeless! Here are three steps you can take to help you go from break up to make up with your ex.
1.
Give your ex space.
This is especially helpful when you've been calling, texting, or emailing your ex frequently.
You need to give your ex a chance to get over the break up.
Plus if you plan that you won't contact your ex for a certain number of days, it will give you distance from your problems.
You won't need to think about what you can do to get back with your ex, because you are following a plan to get them back! 2.
Think about what you want to change about your relationship.
Is there a specific reason you and your ex broke up? If so, think about what you are willing to do to fix the problem.
If there isn't a specific reason that your ex broke up with you, think about things that you know could be worked on and what actions you can take to help the situation.
Be as specific as possible.
3.
Make a plan to help you get your ex back.
If you want your ex to want you again, think about what attracted the two of you to be together in the first place.
Have you changed since then? Have the changes been for the better? Many times when we are in a relationship for a while, we let ourselves go because we don't feel like we need to impress our significant other.
Now is the time to get your life back on track and do everything you can to make yourself extremely attractive to your ex! Jump start your efforts with a to-do list and get started!
You think of your ex when you wake up in the morning.
Any love song on the radio can make you think of them.
Even commercials can make you wish that you had your ex back.
But if your break up was complicated, or if your ex won't talk to you right now, your situation can seem almost hopeless.
It can feel like you are a million miles away from making up with your ex.
What should you do? Of course, while some break ups are worse than others, it is almost never impossible to get your ex back.
The two of you loved each other once, so chances are good that there is still love between you.
It's just clouded right now by bad feelings and problems.
When you are thinking "what will it take to get back with my ex?" you are on the right track.
Just that you are asking that question means that it's not hopeless! Here are three steps you can take to help you go from break up to make up with your ex.
1.
Give your ex space.
This is especially helpful when you've been calling, texting, or emailing your ex frequently.
You need to give your ex a chance to get over the break up.
Plus if you plan that you won't contact your ex for a certain number of days, it will give you distance from your problems.
You won't need to think about what you can do to get back with your ex, because you are following a plan to get them back! 2.
Think about what you want to change about your relationship.
Is there a specific reason you and your ex broke up? If so, think about what you are willing to do to fix the problem.
If there isn't a specific reason that your ex broke up with you, think about things that you know could be worked on and what actions you can take to help the situation.
Be as specific as possible.
3.
Make a plan to help you get your ex back.
If you want your ex to want you again, think about what attracted the two of you to be together in the first place.
Have you changed since then? Have the changes been for the better? Many times when we are in a relationship for a while, we let ourselves go because we don't feel like we need to impress our significant other.
Now is the time to get your life back on track and do everything you can to make yourself extremely attractive to your ex! Jump start your efforts with a to-do list and get started!
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