Going through a break up is a tough thing to handle.
There are all kinds of negative emotions, and it's hard to keep them all in check.
Yet, deep down, all you seem to think about is getting your ex back.
Well, the good news is that it can be as easy as ABC.
A is for Action: Nothing is going to happen unless you make it happen.
It won't do you any good to sit around feeling sorry for yourself.
You need to come up with a plan (or follow a proven plan for getting back an ex).
Be willing to do whatever it takes and you will already have half the battle won.
B is for Being Yourself: Perhaps you are looking back at what went wrong in your relationship, and you think you're to blame.
If you could only turn back time and have acted differently, right? Not so fast! Yes, it is okay to change some things about yourself, but you also need to be happy with who you are.
At the same time, your ex will need to accept you for who you are, and vice-versa.
C is for Communication: So much of our relationships come down to this one thing.
How well we communicate with each other makes all this difference.
This can often be the cause of the break up, but it's also important to getting your ex back.
Be sure to stay respectful and positive when talking to your ex, and be clear about what you want.
People often make things more complicated than they need to be when trying to patch things up.
But as you have seen, you can be more successful when you keep things simple.
That doesn't mean getting your ex back will always be easy, but the things worth fighting for rarely are.