If you are asking the question, what do I need to do to be winning my wife back, the last thing you need to be playing is games or using tricks to get your wife back.
There's obviously a serious reason why the two of you are not together anymore.
So to do something deceitful or tricky to get her back could really backfire and destroy her trust even more than it already has.
You might be saying, "I'll try anything.
" But that isn't the best plan.
A plan is a good thing to have though.
Start really thinking about what was wrong or went wrong in your marriage.
Figure out ways to fix those things.
Become a better person, a better man.
When it comes to improving yourself this has to be real, it can't be a trick to be discarded once you've gotten her back.
You have to sincerely change and believe in the change if you want this to work.
Heck, if you are willing to try anything, do something that will be positive and productive for both of you.
While your making changes, you might even start feeling better about yourself, and that's not a bad thing.
Remember, you are trying to make her happier.
You want her to be happy and you need to, and had better want to value what makes her happy.
Just make sure you don't hound your wife--you don't want to be a stalker.
Or don't beg to get back together--promising her anything.
Most important, and this one is a biggie, don't threaten to kill yourself.
While you might really feel like killing yourself you've got to keep it together and work on making things better.