So you want to get your ex boyfriend back? He's the guy for you, isn't he? You love him and even though you two aren't together right now, your instinct is telling you that's not always going to be the case.
For now, you need to take a step back and figure out a plan to win back his love.
During this time you really do need to be mindful of everything you do.
One mistake and disaster will await you.
Here are 5 things you have to avoid if you want to get your ex boyfriend back: Don't say a word about him to anyone.
You and I both know that you've been putting feelers out there trying to find out whether your ex has asked about you.
You've been asking mutual friends and his family what's going on with him.
Stop it! No more talking about your ex to anyone who may leak it back to him.
Don't put your life on hold.
See that amazing woman staring back at you in the mirror? She rocks! Live again, laugh again and start having fun.
Putting your life on hold for any man is a recipe for relationship disaster.
It may have been a break up but do not allow it to break your spirit.
Don't stop dating.
This is a tricky one but you should be taking a cue from your ex boyfriend's play book.
If he's already moved on and is dating someone new, remember that all is fair in love and break ups.
Obviously you're not going to get all serious with a new guy, but there's nothing wrong with enjoying yourself and showing your ex that other men find you desirable.
Don't have a pity party and invite everyone you know.
Everyone has been through a break up and they know the emotional pain you're in.
But if you go on and on about the break up each and every time you see anyone, you're going to notice your friends dropping out of your life like flies.
Cry if you need to but do it alone.
Let your friends bring your spirits up.
Don't make them suffer because of your break up.
Don't speak before you think.
About that cell phone in your purse.
Never use it when you feel the need to yell or berate your ex.
If you feel an uncontrollable urge to call him and tell him how he ruined your life, put your cell phone down and go for a walk without it.
Take some cool down time and when you come back, calling him won't seem so pressing.
Stay focused on not making a mistake if your goal is to get another chance with your ex.
Once your emotions have calmed down and you feel emotionally strong enough you can set out on your plan to get him back.
For now, you need to take a step back and figure out a plan to win back his love.
During this time you really do need to be mindful of everything you do.
One mistake and disaster will await you.
Here are 5 things you have to avoid if you want to get your ex boyfriend back: Don't say a word about him to anyone.
You and I both know that you've been putting feelers out there trying to find out whether your ex has asked about you.
You've been asking mutual friends and his family what's going on with him.
Stop it! No more talking about your ex to anyone who may leak it back to him.
Don't put your life on hold.
See that amazing woman staring back at you in the mirror? She rocks! Live again, laugh again and start having fun.
Putting your life on hold for any man is a recipe for relationship disaster.
It may have been a break up but do not allow it to break your spirit.
Don't stop dating.
This is a tricky one but you should be taking a cue from your ex boyfriend's play book.
If he's already moved on and is dating someone new, remember that all is fair in love and break ups.
Obviously you're not going to get all serious with a new guy, but there's nothing wrong with enjoying yourself and showing your ex that other men find you desirable.
Don't have a pity party and invite everyone you know.
Everyone has been through a break up and they know the emotional pain you're in.
But if you go on and on about the break up each and every time you see anyone, you're going to notice your friends dropping out of your life like flies.
Cry if you need to but do it alone.
Let your friends bring your spirits up.
Don't make them suffer because of your break up.
Don't speak before you think.
About that cell phone in your purse.
Never use it when you feel the need to yell or berate your ex.
If you feel an uncontrollable urge to call him and tell him how he ruined your life, put your cell phone down and go for a walk without it.
Take some cool down time and when you come back, calling him won't seem so pressing.
Stay focused on not making a mistake if your goal is to get another chance with your ex.
Once your emotions have calmed down and you feel emotionally strong enough you can set out on your plan to get him back.
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