When a man starts tuning out, it means he has something going on in his mind that he thinks is more interesting than what you are saying or doing.
So, how do you get his attention back, the way he used to give it to you? Here are some tips which will help you a lot...
Try hard not to nag The first thing that makes a man tune out is a voice - or a tone of voice - that even remotely sounds like nagging.
You may not think it's nagging, but in his world it might be the worst form of nagging.
If you keep on repeating the same thing, constantly telling him (as opposed to reminding or discussing) about certain things, he will certainly get annoyed.
There's no excuse for shouting The softer your voice, the more eagerly he will listen.
Shouting at him makes him feel like you don't respect him, but if you speak with him (as opposed to speaking TO him) in a gentle, pleasant manner - no matter how upset you are - he is more likely to pay attention.
Don't force him to listen Throwing tantrums, turning off the TV, stomping your feet, or any attempt to get his attention in this manner will probably amuse him at first, but will annoy him in the long run.
He will probably pretend to listen, just to make you stop, but he will eventually try to get away from all this.
Don't be desperate neither act like you are Sulking, being depressed, clinging, or acting like the whole world has collapsed on you will not help you in getting the attention that you crave for.
In fact, this attitude will probably make him walk away.
Instead, enjoy life Be a happy person.
Draw your happiness from within yourself.
Do things that you enjoy, be productive, be independent.
Go out with your friends, pamper yourself a bit.
Do things that would build your self-confidence.
Confidence is a magnet that draws attention.
Pull back a little Men are hunters by nature and they do get lazy in a relationship sometimes, especially if they're confident that their "prize catch" has already been caught.
If you pull back a little - like being slightly out of reach without really going away - you will switch on his hunting mode & he will be more eager to talk to you.
BE interesting so he won't get bored The only way to actually get his attention is for you to be interesting enough for him.
Find the woman that you were before, the one that he fell in love with, and be that woman all over again.
So, how do you get his attention back, the way he used to give it to you? Here are some tips which will help you a lot...
Try hard not to nag The first thing that makes a man tune out is a voice - or a tone of voice - that even remotely sounds like nagging.
You may not think it's nagging, but in his world it might be the worst form of nagging.
If you keep on repeating the same thing, constantly telling him (as opposed to reminding or discussing) about certain things, he will certainly get annoyed.
There's no excuse for shouting The softer your voice, the more eagerly he will listen.
Shouting at him makes him feel like you don't respect him, but if you speak with him (as opposed to speaking TO him) in a gentle, pleasant manner - no matter how upset you are - he is more likely to pay attention.
Don't force him to listen Throwing tantrums, turning off the TV, stomping your feet, or any attempt to get his attention in this manner will probably amuse him at first, but will annoy him in the long run.
He will probably pretend to listen, just to make you stop, but he will eventually try to get away from all this.
Don't be desperate neither act like you are Sulking, being depressed, clinging, or acting like the whole world has collapsed on you will not help you in getting the attention that you crave for.
In fact, this attitude will probably make him walk away.
Instead, enjoy life Be a happy person.
Draw your happiness from within yourself.
Do things that you enjoy, be productive, be independent.
Go out with your friends, pamper yourself a bit.
Do things that would build your self-confidence.
Confidence is a magnet that draws attention.
Pull back a little Men are hunters by nature and they do get lazy in a relationship sometimes, especially if they're confident that their "prize catch" has already been caught.
If you pull back a little - like being slightly out of reach without really going away - you will switch on his hunting mode & he will be more eager to talk to you.
BE interesting so he won't get bored The only way to actually get his attention is for you to be interesting enough for him.
Find the woman that you were before, the one that he fell in love with, and be that woman all over again.
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