You feel like you've tried everything and nothing is working.
If you want to win back an ex, avoid making these two mistakes.
The first mistake is trying to get them back right away; the second mistake you can make is holding on to them.
To understand how this works, read on and I'll break down the anatomy of it.
If you have been the one let go, your ex has the upper hand immediately.
They know that YOU want them back and they will probably want to see how hard you are willing to work to get them back.
Where do you start? Ignore them for a while.
Move on with your life for now.
If you let them see you sweat, you are wearing your heart on your sleeve.
By distancing yourself, you are gaining the edge in this situation.
Eventually you will get them back of course, so why state your intentions now? Your ex probably feels more confident at this point; they also would like to see a little drama from your end, just to test you.
Don't let this get under your skin; it's natural that they may want this now-it makes them feel a bit more superior.
Let them feel this way.
Go on with your life as if nothing even happened: don't do them favors or run any errands for them-you didn't do these things until you met them, right? You just don't know them anymore; at least, that's how you must act.
You will not only feel better, it will take your mind off of having to please them for now.
Besides, your ex wouldn't want you hanging around anyway-you are giving them what they want.
This surprises a lot of exes because most people would do the opposite.
But not you.
Be polite to them, just don't make yourself available to them in the way you used to.