You've been thinking about him constantly! You want to get him back before your chances are gone.
What can you do to repair this once perfect relationship? First off, all women should know that a break-up doesn't necessarily mean it was their fault.
It takes two people to start a relationship and two to end it.
If one of you were unfaithful, there has to be a deeper reason that happened.
Did you both become lazy in your appearances? Did you just stop trying? Men and women are wired differently.
Men want to be the center of their woman's universe no matter how unrealistic that sounds.
Women want to be noticed as well, and cared for by a loving man.
When both party's needs aren't met anymore, something is going to happen.
One or both of you will look for that attention elsewhere or just stop caring all together.
This segment is going to be directed only at women because this is information and advice for women only.
It by no means suggests that women have to take on all of the responsibility to keep a relationship fresh and alive! Think back to the time you and your man met.
You both did everything you could to look and act exactly like the other one wanted.
You bought new clothes.
Your hair looked beautiful.
You were clean, smelled lovely and wore make-up too (unless you were just naturally beautiful).
You were excited when you saw him, and your heart beat faster every time you were together.
You did everything with each other, and even though many things weren't something you normally would have done, you did it anyway because of him! You participated with a smile and positive attitude! Fast forward to today.
How do you behave around him? Do you try your hardest to please him? Do you give him compliments, or just nag him because he lies on the couch and watches sports on TV? Remember, he needs work too, but we're focusing on the women right now! In your ex's point of view, you've become a nag.
You don't give out compliments.
You berate him because he doesn't do the chores you want.
You wear sweats all of the time.
You get angry when he wants to go out with the guys.
When he does go out (rarely) you give him the third degree about where he is going and when he will be back.
What you ex wants is a woman that admires him and thinks he's everything she could ever ask for.
He wants a woman that has her own agenda (to a degree) and wants to spend equal time with and without him.
She doesn't care if he goes out with his friends because she has her own friends that she loves to hang out with.
She is confident, sexy, and shows no signs of insecurity.
He wants a woman that is fun to be around and not a downer.
He wants the old you back, the woman you were when you met each other! If couples could remain the same (or almost) as they were when they met, relationships would likely remain wonderful and intact.
That may be unreasonable after marriage and a family, but during the dating stage it should be doable.
Living together is a whole different problem.
I would advise against it.
By keeping the mystery alive, you're also keeping the spark alive.
You don't need to be together 24/7.
Date each other and see each other 4 days a week.
By keeping the interest alive and by keeping your boyfriend wanting more of you, you can have a successful relationship.
Go back to being the woman he fell in love with, and you'll be able to get him back!
What can you do to repair this once perfect relationship? First off, all women should know that a break-up doesn't necessarily mean it was their fault.
It takes two people to start a relationship and two to end it.
If one of you were unfaithful, there has to be a deeper reason that happened.
Did you both become lazy in your appearances? Did you just stop trying? Men and women are wired differently.
Men want to be the center of their woman's universe no matter how unrealistic that sounds.
Women want to be noticed as well, and cared for by a loving man.
When both party's needs aren't met anymore, something is going to happen.
One or both of you will look for that attention elsewhere or just stop caring all together.
This segment is going to be directed only at women because this is information and advice for women only.
It by no means suggests that women have to take on all of the responsibility to keep a relationship fresh and alive! Think back to the time you and your man met.
You both did everything you could to look and act exactly like the other one wanted.
You bought new clothes.
Your hair looked beautiful.
You were clean, smelled lovely and wore make-up too (unless you were just naturally beautiful).
You were excited when you saw him, and your heart beat faster every time you were together.
You did everything with each other, and even though many things weren't something you normally would have done, you did it anyway because of him! You participated with a smile and positive attitude! Fast forward to today.
How do you behave around him? Do you try your hardest to please him? Do you give him compliments, or just nag him because he lies on the couch and watches sports on TV? Remember, he needs work too, but we're focusing on the women right now! In your ex's point of view, you've become a nag.
You don't give out compliments.
You berate him because he doesn't do the chores you want.
You wear sweats all of the time.
You get angry when he wants to go out with the guys.
When he does go out (rarely) you give him the third degree about where he is going and when he will be back.
What you ex wants is a woman that admires him and thinks he's everything she could ever ask for.
He wants a woman that has her own agenda (to a degree) and wants to spend equal time with and without him.
She doesn't care if he goes out with his friends because she has her own friends that she loves to hang out with.
She is confident, sexy, and shows no signs of insecurity.
He wants a woman that is fun to be around and not a downer.
He wants the old you back, the woman you were when you met each other! If couples could remain the same (or almost) as they were when they met, relationships would likely remain wonderful and intact.
That may be unreasonable after marriage and a family, but during the dating stage it should be doable.
Living together is a whole different problem.
I would advise against it.
By keeping the mystery alive, you're also keeping the spark alive.
You don't need to be together 24/7.
Date each other and see each other 4 days a week.
By keeping the interest alive and by keeping your boyfriend wanting more of you, you can have a successful relationship.
Go back to being the woman he fell in love with, and you'll be able to get him back!
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