Are you trying to get back together with your boyfriend but it just seems like you're talking to a wall? Could you just scream sometimes and at other times you just want to cry because it just seems like your boyfriend has built a wall around his heart and you wonder if you'll ever be able to win him back.
The good news is that there is a cure for that and there is no need for you to stress yourself out.
You do have the power to bring him around and with a little understanding and some skillful relationship skills you can not only get him talking but vastly improve your odds of getting him back in a timely manner.
Breaking Down the Wall - Right now your boyfriend might not want to talk to you and the honest truth is that part of that reason is probably due to the attention that you might be giving him.
You may feel that what you are doing is right and if you are expending a lot of effort in trying to talk with him or convince him to come back to you this could be the reason for the wall that he has built around himself and his heart.
This could be the reason why he seems so uncaring and disinterested in you.
Without getting too involved in your particular situation one tactic that you should consider for the short term would be to just let him sit for a bit.
Put him on the back burner, so to speak, to simmer a little bit.
You are not turning your back on him and you're not breaking off communication forever.
You're just allowing a little bit of time for the dust to settle and for emotions to cool off a little bit.
Playing Tag - Once the time is right and it is apparent that it's OK to resume contact with him make sure that you are not too available.
This might seem like a bit of a game and you might not want to play games but it is a necessary part of getting him back that you're just going to have to deal with.
Let his call go to voicemail.
Return his call or text message the next day instead of right away.
The reason for playing this little game of tag is to both create some curiosity and also a little subliminal tension.
By not getting back to him right away he will begin to wonder what you are up to, what you are doing and also you will be sending a message that your time is valuable.
You are no longer sitting by the phone waiting for him to call.
Get it? Setting Him Up - If your ex isn't talking to you at all and the time is right to initiate contact you can begin things with one simple phone call.
Chances are that when you call him for the first time he won't answer the phone.
Of course, you should be prepared to say something if he does call but chances are he won't and you will need to leave a voicemail.
Leave him a vague message with the happiest most genuine voice you can muster and tell him that you wanted to call him and tell him some good news.
Proceed to tell him that you just found out that...
and hang up the phone.
If he does call back right away let the call go to voicemail and return the call in a few hours or the next day.
Have some bit of good news to share with him such as that you have been working hard since the breakup and you think that it's starting to pay off and you think that you might be in line for a promotion.
Any news that shows that you are thriving in spite of the breakup is great.
Keep your call short and in this call and all future calls until you do get your boyfriend back you should be the one to end the call.
Tell him that you have to run or that someone is at the door or that you have another call coming in.
Just keep the upper hand and never let him see you sweat or appear weak and needy again While these are only a few pieces of advice that I wanted to share with you to show you how you can begin to get your boyfriend back you can probably see that getting back together with your ex can be done.
Winning your ex boyfriend back can be your reality and you really can end the pain of your breakup and get him back quite easily if you know what to do, have a plan and stick to that plan.
The good news is that there is a cure for that and there is no need for you to stress yourself out.
You do have the power to bring him around and with a little understanding and some skillful relationship skills you can not only get him talking but vastly improve your odds of getting him back in a timely manner.
Breaking Down the Wall - Right now your boyfriend might not want to talk to you and the honest truth is that part of that reason is probably due to the attention that you might be giving him.
You may feel that what you are doing is right and if you are expending a lot of effort in trying to talk with him or convince him to come back to you this could be the reason for the wall that he has built around himself and his heart.
This could be the reason why he seems so uncaring and disinterested in you.
Without getting too involved in your particular situation one tactic that you should consider for the short term would be to just let him sit for a bit.
Put him on the back burner, so to speak, to simmer a little bit.
You are not turning your back on him and you're not breaking off communication forever.
You're just allowing a little bit of time for the dust to settle and for emotions to cool off a little bit.
Playing Tag - Once the time is right and it is apparent that it's OK to resume contact with him make sure that you are not too available.
This might seem like a bit of a game and you might not want to play games but it is a necessary part of getting him back that you're just going to have to deal with.
Let his call go to voicemail.
Return his call or text message the next day instead of right away.
The reason for playing this little game of tag is to both create some curiosity and also a little subliminal tension.
By not getting back to him right away he will begin to wonder what you are up to, what you are doing and also you will be sending a message that your time is valuable.
You are no longer sitting by the phone waiting for him to call.
Get it? Setting Him Up - If your ex isn't talking to you at all and the time is right to initiate contact you can begin things with one simple phone call.
Chances are that when you call him for the first time he won't answer the phone.
Of course, you should be prepared to say something if he does call but chances are he won't and you will need to leave a voicemail.
Leave him a vague message with the happiest most genuine voice you can muster and tell him that you wanted to call him and tell him some good news.
Proceed to tell him that you just found out that...
and hang up the phone.
If he does call back right away let the call go to voicemail and return the call in a few hours or the next day.
Have some bit of good news to share with him such as that you have been working hard since the breakup and you think that it's starting to pay off and you think that you might be in line for a promotion.
Any news that shows that you are thriving in spite of the breakup is great.
Keep your call short and in this call and all future calls until you do get your boyfriend back you should be the one to end the call.
Tell him that you have to run or that someone is at the door or that you have another call coming in.
Just keep the upper hand and never let him see you sweat or appear weak and needy again While these are only a few pieces of advice that I wanted to share with you to show you how you can begin to get your boyfriend back you can probably see that getting back together with your ex can be done.
Winning your ex boyfriend back can be your reality and you really can end the pain of your breakup and get him back quite easily if you know what to do, have a plan and stick to that plan.
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