There are many ways to push your ex further away using email and facebook, and the vast majority of people do exactly that. Using facebook and email to win an ex back is tough, unless you know what I know! Let me show you the best ways to get your ex back.
Over the last few years I've seen so many people dive into sending messages to an ex without giving any real thought to what they're doing and how it'll be perceived on the other end. Get this wrong and you'll completely blow any chance of getting them back, I can promise you that.
What I'm going to show you are 3 ways to get your ex back using just 1 short message. These 3 ways rely on using a complex blend of psychology to manipulate the way your ex thinks and feels. If you're not comfortable with using mind control techniques to win back your ex then I suggest you stop reading now.
Still here? OK good, you will soon be part of a minority who have the perfect weapon in the relationship fixing battle and you can start taking control back by sending a simple little message.
Here's what you need to do. Firstly, this message must convey scarcity. What I mean by that is you must make yourself seem unavailable. People always want what they can't have, and if your ex thinks that they are losing you they'll suddenly start to feel the pain that you currently feel.
Secondly you are going to remind them of the loving emotions and feelings they have had for you in the past. The way you'll do that is by briefly mentioning a special night or event you both once shared together. But you'll need to keep it 'under the radar.'
Thirdly you'll need to arouse their curiosity. The human brain is a problem solving machine, so if you give someone information, but leave out a key piece of the jigsaw they'll be stuck thinking about it for days.
Here's an example:
Hi Tim,
Something really unbelievable but really cool happened today which reminded me of that night we shared in Los Angeles on your birthday. Remember that? Such a funny night.
Anyway, I just wanted to thank you for giving me this time to think, it's been a real eye opener for me and I can now see why things went wrong between us.
I can't really talk now as I have so much to organise. Things have been a bit crazy here recently. Also, I wont be contactable by phone or email for the next week at least but I'll explain more about that another time.
Take care,
Katy
That's all 3 of the best ways of getting your ex back rolled into 1 short but compelling email or face book message. You can find the next steps on my blog.
Over the last few years I've seen so many people dive into sending messages to an ex without giving any real thought to what they're doing and how it'll be perceived on the other end. Get this wrong and you'll completely blow any chance of getting them back, I can promise you that.
What I'm going to show you are 3 ways to get your ex back using just 1 short message. These 3 ways rely on using a complex blend of psychology to manipulate the way your ex thinks and feels. If you're not comfortable with using mind control techniques to win back your ex then I suggest you stop reading now.
Still here? OK good, you will soon be part of a minority who have the perfect weapon in the relationship fixing battle and you can start taking control back by sending a simple little message.
Here's what you need to do. Firstly, this message must convey scarcity. What I mean by that is you must make yourself seem unavailable. People always want what they can't have, and if your ex thinks that they are losing you they'll suddenly start to feel the pain that you currently feel.
Secondly you are going to remind them of the loving emotions and feelings they have had for you in the past. The way you'll do that is by briefly mentioning a special night or event you both once shared together. But you'll need to keep it 'under the radar.'
Thirdly you'll need to arouse their curiosity. The human brain is a problem solving machine, so if you give someone information, but leave out a key piece of the jigsaw they'll be stuck thinking about it for days.
Here's an example:
Hi Tim,
Something really unbelievable but really cool happened today which reminded me of that night we shared in Los Angeles on your birthday. Remember that? Such a funny night.
Anyway, I just wanted to thank you for giving me this time to think, it's been a real eye opener for me and I can now see why things went wrong between us.
I can't really talk now as I have so much to organise. Things have been a bit crazy here recently. Also, I wont be contactable by phone or email for the next week at least but I'll explain more about that another time.
Take care,
Katy
That's all 3 of the best ways of getting your ex back rolled into 1 short but compelling email or face book message. You can find the next steps on my blog.
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