If you are reading stuff like this then it is obvious your girlfriend has dumped you and the race is on to get her back.
It seems that everywhere you search for help on the internet you come up with the same old stuff.
Naturally someone has put their own special spin on the words but they all seem to say the same thing.
"Give her space, get hold of yourself, be loveable or don't be jealous".
After a while this drivel all reads the same: BORING! Maybe we can separate something out to concentrate on and give you a little love-renewing-ammunition in the process.
Your relationship probably started on chemistry alone.
This could have been emotional chemistry triggered by that certain look, watching her in some athletic game or you just happened to run into her while holding the office door open.
Nowadays (one of those inane statements that really do not connect with you personally but always mean: NOW) a couple can jump into a bed before they even know each other's last names.
This is the chemistry of lust and is easily worn thin when daylight arrives and you wonder how in the hell you got there.
Not a good indication the relationship will last long.
If you are fortunate and really care for this lady then you might get far enough to become friends.
In case you missed it, "friendship" means enjoying each others company at the movies, on the beach, or even when cleaning a house together.
This boils down to mutual esteem and friendly assistance.
When you grab a lady at the bar, spend three days in bed and then one of you takes off while the pizza boxes still litter the floor you are not exactly the best of friends! It probably is no mystery that she won't answer you phone calls.
She won't call you back because she doesn't even know who you are.
So if your feelings towards this sweetie run a bit deeper than sexual infatuation maybe you should start by being friends! While this is an easier accomplishment if you are still "together" it is possible to become friends even if she has given you the old "heave-ho" of love.
Dig deep into your head (alright use your heart too!) and decide if one is the real-deal for the rest of your life and then act accordingly.
Why not work to become friends and see if a sexual attraction can come out of something besides a six pack of beer? Your mouth actually is useful for more than trying to suck her lipstick off.
Find out who and what this lady is made of and quite possibly you really should be together.
Time is your friend here, the mystic of sex is over and you can concentrate on just what makes the both of you tick.
Somewhat of an unusual approach but it really does work! If you and this lady are supposed to be together for life it will become apparent through friendship.
Friendship that will grow into "like" which will flow directly to "love" and then guess what? Someday you just may be back in that bedroom with those pizza boxes littering the floor.
The difference would be that you actually cared for your dance partner rather than just getting off! Give it a try, you might be pleasantly surprised.
It seems that everywhere you search for help on the internet you come up with the same old stuff.
Naturally someone has put their own special spin on the words but they all seem to say the same thing.
"Give her space, get hold of yourself, be loveable or don't be jealous".
After a while this drivel all reads the same: BORING! Maybe we can separate something out to concentrate on and give you a little love-renewing-ammunition in the process.
Your relationship probably started on chemistry alone.
This could have been emotional chemistry triggered by that certain look, watching her in some athletic game or you just happened to run into her while holding the office door open.
Nowadays (one of those inane statements that really do not connect with you personally but always mean: NOW) a couple can jump into a bed before they even know each other's last names.
This is the chemistry of lust and is easily worn thin when daylight arrives and you wonder how in the hell you got there.
Not a good indication the relationship will last long.
If you are fortunate and really care for this lady then you might get far enough to become friends.
In case you missed it, "friendship" means enjoying each others company at the movies, on the beach, or even when cleaning a house together.
This boils down to mutual esteem and friendly assistance.
When you grab a lady at the bar, spend three days in bed and then one of you takes off while the pizza boxes still litter the floor you are not exactly the best of friends! It probably is no mystery that she won't answer you phone calls.
She won't call you back because she doesn't even know who you are.
So if your feelings towards this sweetie run a bit deeper than sexual infatuation maybe you should start by being friends! While this is an easier accomplishment if you are still "together" it is possible to become friends even if she has given you the old "heave-ho" of love.
Dig deep into your head (alright use your heart too!) and decide if one is the real-deal for the rest of your life and then act accordingly.
Why not work to become friends and see if a sexual attraction can come out of something besides a six pack of beer? Your mouth actually is useful for more than trying to suck her lipstick off.
Find out who and what this lady is made of and quite possibly you really should be together.
Time is your friend here, the mystic of sex is over and you can concentrate on just what makes the both of you tick.
Somewhat of an unusual approach but it really does work! If you and this lady are supposed to be together for life it will become apparent through friendship.
Friendship that will grow into "like" which will flow directly to "love" and then guess what? Someday you just may be back in that bedroom with those pizza boxes littering the floor.
The difference would be that you actually cared for your dance partner rather than just getting off! Give it a try, you might be pleasantly surprised.
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