Finding it hard to cope with the heartache and pain? Well know that you are not alone.
Hundreds are going through those same feelings of devastation and bitterness.
However it is also a fact that hundreds of women have learnt how to deal with a breakup and have moved on to a life full of happiness and contentment.
Here are some ways of how to be successful.
Accept the situation that surrounds you You can't afford to be in denial about the breakup.
The faster you accept that it is over, the better it will be for you.
Moping about and feeling sorry for your self will only make you lose confidence.
If you accept the situation then you will find it easy to move on ahead towards something better.
Don't lose hope in yourself and your abilities Just because your relationship did not work out, does not mean that you are not worthy of happiness! Don't lose self confidence.
Stir up all the abilities and gifts inside of you and march on towards success.
It is important to hone these talents to perfection and believe in yourself.
Go all out and give your self a good time Why should you sit at home and brood? All you will ever do is dwell on the past and feel miserable.
What you should do is give yourself something else to do and think about.
You can achieve this by concentrating on yourself, pampering yourself and taking part in various activities that can help you have a super time and bring out the best in you.
Reconnect with old friends and family Remember all those friends and family members you ignored and did not have time for in the past? Well, now is the time to make things right.
Get in touch with them and start reconnecting and communicating with friends that meant a lot to you before you got so involved with your ex.
You will be surprised how time will fly without you thinking of the bad times you have had.
Time heals! No matter how devastated and miserable you feel right now, you have got to believe that time will heal! There will be a time when you can see your ex without feeling hurt or bitter about the past.
Give yourself a fair chance and be positive about life.
You are worthy of something better! Don't even try to get revenge on your ex If you are planning on getting revenge on your ex - forget it! This will only make you even angrier, bitter and unhappy.
You will find yourself trapped in a vicious circle from where you cannot escape! By letting go and forgiving him, you will be able to look forward to a bright future - free from the past and you will find that you don't want to take revenge on your ex anymore.
Find new things to do The best way to escape the past is to find new things to do.
The busier you keep yourself, the easier you will find it to forget your ex! Join clubs, go dancing, look gorgeous and make loads of new friends.
Once you enter the hustle and bustle of a new life - you will find it easy to move on!