While it is impossible to fathom, he broke up with me.
How do I get him back? Do I even want him back? These are things you that should be going through your head if you've ever had the misfortune of being dumped by a man that has obviously lost his mind to let you go.
Now, if you take a moment to look at things objectively you will realize that, as amazing as you are, you aren't exactly perfect.
There are a few flaws that might cause serious relationship problems if not carefully tended.
You'll also find, upon close inspection, that he isn't exactly Mr.
Perfect either.
Of course, that doesn't stop him from being Mr.
Right.
Your big question to answer before doing anything else is this: Is he without a doubt Mr.
Right for all time or was he just Mr.
Right Now up until about the time he broke up with you? Avoid the Pity Party Don't wallow in rocky road or chunky monkey with the mantra "he broke up with me, how do I get him back" ringing in your mind.
Instead, put down the spoon, dump the chocolate sauce down the disposal, and drop the whipped cream can in the wastebasket.
That accomplishes nothing good and will not help you get him back at all.
What you need to do is start making plans to get your ex boyfriend back.
Give Him His Sexy Back Begin by creating a sexy new you.
Become the inner vixen you know is lurking underneath.
Grab some sexy new shoes, change your hair color (for goodness sake don't cut it unless he specifically likes short hair you will find that a large percentage of guys despise hair cuts), tone and trim, and go for a little bit of a makeover.
Your new image will definitely get his attention and might even get his motor running back to you.
Do this and you won't have to think about "he broke up with me, how do I get him back" for long.
He'll be beating down your door.
Forget the Sledgehammer-Go for Subtle Sometimes the freight train won't get his attention but something subtle and simple will have him running back to you.
If the obvious changes weren't grabbing his attention it is time to go for something a little beneath the surface.
Make subtle changes in your attitude about yourself and about him.
Men need to be needed.
While they don't need a Velcro Barbie doll on their arm that can't do anything without them they do enjoy feeling as though they matter and that their contribution is appreciated.
How do I get him back? Do I even want him back? These are things you that should be going through your head if you've ever had the misfortune of being dumped by a man that has obviously lost his mind to let you go.
Now, if you take a moment to look at things objectively you will realize that, as amazing as you are, you aren't exactly perfect.
There are a few flaws that might cause serious relationship problems if not carefully tended.
You'll also find, upon close inspection, that he isn't exactly Mr.
Perfect either.
Of course, that doesn't stop him from being Mr.
Right.
Your big question to answer before doing anything else is this: Is he without a doubt Mr.
Right for all time or was he just Mr.
Right Now up until about the time he broke up with you? Avoid the Pity Party Don't wallow in rocky road or chunky monkey with the mantra "he broke up with me, how do I get him back" ringing in your mind.
Instead, put down the spoon, dump the chocolate sauce down the disposal, and drop the whipped cream can in the wastebasket.
That accomplishes nothing good and will not help you get him back at all.
What you need to do is start making plans to get your ex boyfriend back.
Give Him His Sexy Back Begin by creating a sexy new you.
Become the inner vixen you know is lurking underneath.
Grab some sexy new shoes, change your hair color (for goodness sake don't cut it unless he specifically likes short hair you will find that a large percentage of guys despise hair cuts), tone and trim, and go for a little bit of a makeover.
Your new image will definitely get his attention and might even get his motor running back to you.
Do this and you won't have to think about "he broke up with me, how do I get him back" for long.
He'll be beating down your door.
Forget the Sledgehammer-Go for Subtle Sometimes the freight train won't get his attention but something subtle and simple will have him running back to you.
If the obvious changes weren't grabbing his attention it is time to go for something a little beneath the surface.
Make subtle changes in your attitude about yourself and about him.
Men need to be needed.
While they don't need a Velcro Barbie doll on their arm that can't do anything without them they do enjoy feeling as though they matter and that their contribution is appreciated.
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