Love is one such emotion that is very complex to understand.
When you are in love, when you are dating somebody, often this question rises as to whether this guy is meant for you? Or does he really share the love bond with you? These questions often come on surface when in love and getting answers to these isn't any easier but certainly not impossible.
You should know about the seriousness of your partner in this relationship real soon as the more delay, the more problems might occur making the relationship go ugly.
Certainly there are ways of finding out whether the guy is committed or not and what is his take on the relationship.
Commitment status: It is very important to see the level of commitment the guy is in or even as simple as whether he is committed or not.
It so happens that with a lot of guys, they like to keep it real, space it out, take things as and when they come, which may not be even close to what you want.
Therefore it is safe to get these issues sorted out initially.
If your guy does not wish to let his friends and families know that you are his girlfriend, then that could be a serious issue.
So in such areas keep it clear to avoid further confusion.
Is he capable of being a support system to you when needed and stand by you in your attempts? A lot becomes clear by the behaviour pattern of your guy, if he is not quite concerned of interested in your affairs and does not bother to pep you up when you are low then such things start defining your relationship more distinctly.
The way he looks at you, the way he makes you feel, the calls and the messages, the dinners, all this could be enough to say that he loves you.
It is not about coming up with lavish things to be shown to the world what a guy can do for his girl, a simple gesture in private for just the two of them could be enough.
He will be there to stand by you through thick and thin.
He knows what means the most to you and he would try his level best not to upset you by ruining your dreams in any slightest possible way.
Does your life go around him? When you try to give your 100% to make sure both of you are happy and if the same, even in the slightest percentage does not come from the opposite direction then all the efforts placed are worthless.
If you don't hold an important spot in your guys life and he just lets you in to get his basic desires fulfilled then it is time for reconsideration.
The following statements are situational based; if they happen to come in your life then you should know about what has to be done:
When you are in love, when you are dating somebody, often this question rises as to whether this guy is meant for you? Or does he really share the love bond with you? These questions often come on surface when in love and getting answers to these isn't any easier but certainly not impossible.
You should know about the seriousness of your partner in this relationship real soon as the more delay, the more problems might occur making the relationship go ugly.
Certainly there are ways of finding out whether the guy is committed or not and what is his take on the relationship.
Commitment status: It is very important to see the level of commitment the guy is in or even as simple as whether he is committed or not.
It so happens that with a lot of guys, they like to keep it real, space it out, take things as and when they come, which may not be even close to what you want.
Therefore it is safe to get these issues sorted out initially.
If your guy does not wish to let his friends and families know that you are his girlfriend, then that could be a serious issue.
So in such areas keep it clear to avoid further confusion.
Is he capable of being a support system to you when needed and stand by you in your attempts? A lot becomes clear by the behaviour pattern of your guy, if he is not quite concerned of interested in your affairs and does not bother to pep you up when you are low then such things start defining your relationship more distinctly.
The way he looks at you, the way he makes you feel, the calls and the messages, the dinners, all this could be enough to say that he loves you.
It is not about coming up with lavish things to be shown to the world what a guy can do for his girl, a simple gesture in private for just the two of them could be enough.
He will be there to stand by you through thick and thin.
He knows what means the most to you and he would try his level best not to upset you by ruining your dreams in any slightest possible way.
Does your life go around him? When you try to give your 100% to make sure both of you are happy and if the same, even in the slightest percentage does not come from the opposite direction then all the efforts placed are worthless.
If you don't hold an important spot in your guys life and he just lets you in to get his basic desires fulfilled then it is time for reconsideration.
The following statements are situational based; if they happen to come in your life then you should know about what has to be done:
- He is not interested about the on goings of your life.
- He is always discussing himself in all the areas
- He shares the plans he has sketched for himself and you are nowhere a part of it, not even closely.
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