So you have been contacting your ex very frequently but your ex ignores you. So, isn't this a very tricky situation. How can you stop a breakup in this kind of situation?

Well, chances are you have been doing something that should not be done and if you keep on doing the same things, you will continue getting the same result. This is definitely not what you want.

(Note: The tips provided below applies to both men and women. For simplicity, I will use "Him" and "Her" interchangeably)

Now, you may want to reread the first paragraph of this article again. What is the mistake being made here? I hope you can see that. The mistake is, "Contacting your ex very frequently"

The number one rule to follow if you want to get your ex back is not to appear desperate. Most people have a tendency to avoid other people who appear desperate.

So, if you call your ex too often, he will only want to avoid you more and will purposely not answer your call or reply your text message. Since he can see that you call him so often, he knows you are desperate.

So, what you want to do instead is to call him less often. For example, if he did not answer your call today, it is always better to wait a few more days before you call him again. That way, he will think you are not desperate even if you feel so.

In fact, he may even be curious about why you are calling him and may just pick up the phone to see what plans you have. There are tons of other common mistakes that this article won't be able to cover.

But if you want to know what the mistakes to avoid are, you can use this very simple guideline. Before trying to do something, ask yourself this question, "Does it make me look desperate and needy?" If the answer is a yes, then don't do it.

By avoiding these mistakes, it will make it easier for you to get your ex back.