Dating is an art and proper planning is very essential for a successful date. Failure in a date in more than 50% of the cases is related to improper planning by both parties. Remember your date is a stranger to you and if she is not, you are not well known to one another. Proper planning is very essential. So that you can create the good first impression, which is very important. Always try as much as possible to be on time. It is a sign of respect for the other person and it no doubt gives a very good impression of your personality.
Proper grooming is paramount, dress well and avoid cloths that portray you to be what you are not. A smart casual will do very well at this time. Trim your hair very well and avoid an exaggerated hair style. You don't know what your potential date is looking for. Brush your teeth well and polish your shoes. Makes sure the first impression your create will last in her mind.
If you are held somewhere due to unavoidable circumstances or emergencies keep your date posted. This reduces the anxiety associated in waiting and you look more organized. If by any chance a date has to be canceled do it on time. I would suggest one day in advance to avoid inconveniencing her; all this is essential in organizing a successful date. Its very ironical and unwise to cancel a date while she is waiting on the other end at that material hour. As much as possible try and fit in her shoes and do what you would expect her to do to you. Imagine what you would feel if when waiting in a park somewhere or a restaurant she suddenly calls you and cancels the date. This to me is a very immature and insensitive way of operating.
For smokers i would advice you first to establish whether she smokes before you start. For the sake of a successful date, please observe general rules of smoking and only do it with permission from her. Not everybody likes the smell of cigarettes and a good number of smokers are very aware of the global ant-smoking campaign. This also goes to some habitual tendencies of some people; a good number of people have this habit of pricking or blowing their noses in public. Avoid this and if you have to do it look for a private place or keep some distance from your date.
Makes sure you make the discussion with her very involving. Don't expect her to do the talking as you do the listening. A healthy discussion must be two way. Give her enough time to express herself and listen carefully. A successful date is on the way if you follow this advice to the letter. Show your partner that you care and you are a good listener. Women are very much happy when you listen to them, they interpret this as being caring. Ask questions where you think it is essential or if you feel there is something you need to know from her. Don't feel shy, give her an opportunity to learn and gauge your expectations.
Proper grooming is paramount, dress well and avoid cloths that portray you to be what you are not. A smart casual will do very well at this time. Trim your hair very well and avoid an exaggerated hair style. You don't know what your potential date is looking for. Brush your teeth well and polish your shoes. Makes sure the first impression your create will last in her mind.
If you are held somewhere due to unavoidable circumstances or emergencies keep your date posted. This reduces the anxiety associated in waiting and you look more organized. If by any chance a date has to be canceled do it on time. I would suggest one day in advance to avoid inconveniencing her; all this is essential in organizing a successful date. Its very ironical and unwise to cancel a date while she is waiting on the other end at that material hour. As much as possible try and fit in her shoes and do what you would expect her to do to you. Imagine what you would feel if when waiting in a park somewhere or a restaurant she suddenly calls you and cancels the date. This to me is a very immature and insensitive way of operating.
For smokers i would advice you first to establish whether she smokes before you start. For the sake of a successful date, please observe general rules of smoking and only do it with permission from her. Not everybody likes the smell of cigarettes and a good number of smokers are very aware of the global ant-smoking campaign. This also goes to some habitual tendencies of some people; a good number of people have this habit of pricking or blowing their noses in public. Avoid this and if you have to do it look for a private place or keep some distance from your date.
Makes sure you make the discussion with her very involving. Don't expect her to do the talking as you do the listening. A healthy discussion must be two way. Give her enough time to express herself and listen carefully. A successful date is on the way if you follow this advice to the letter. Show your partner that you care and you are a good listener. Women are very much happy when you listen to them, they interpret this as being caring. Ask questions where you think it is essential or if you feel there is something you need to know from her. Don't feel shy, give her an opportunity to learn and gauge your expectations.
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